"Familja dhe roli i saj n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri sipas konceptit t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs Orthodhokse".
Intervist\u00eb me Teologun Msc. Dhimit\u00ebr Qosja
Nga Dhjakon Aleksand\u00ebr Dimro\u00e7i
Miq t\u00eb Media Ngjallja, n\u00eb vazhdim do t\u00eb ndiqni intervist\u00ebn q\u00eb kryem me Teologun e Kish\u00ebs ton\u00eb Orthodhokse z.Dhimit\u00ebr Qosja pedagog n\u00eb Akademin\u00eb Teologjike "Ngjallja e Krishtit" n\u00eb Sh\u00ebn Vlash t\u00eb Durr\u00ebsit. Tema e k\u00ebsaj interviste ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht me "Familjen dhe rolin e saj n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri sipas konceptit t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs Orthodhokse".\u00a0
1. Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb roli i familjes n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri sipas konceptit t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs Orthodhokse?\u00a0
Tema e familjes \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb aktuale, vazhdimisht kemi nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb, ta jetojm\u00eb familjen dhe ta p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb at\u00eb. Sipas konceptit orthodhoks sigurisht \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, familja p\u00ebrkon me nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr institucionet m\u00eb t\u00eb hershme n\u00eb historin\u00eb e njer\u00ebzimit, p\u00ebrkon me vet\u00eb lindjen e njer\u00ebzimit dhe bazuar mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb ne na jepet n\u00eb Shkrimin e Shenjt\u00eb, kujtojm\u00eb dhe kuptojm\u00eb q\u00eb familja ka nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsia baz\u00eb e Kish\u00ebs, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsia baz\u00eb e nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsia baz\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do popull, p\u00ebr \u00e7do komb. Bazuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, n\u00eb k\u00ebto koncepte at\u00ebher\u00eb edhe Kisha Orthodhokse tregon nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesje t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb lidhje me familjen, me edukimin e saj, me lutjen me mb\u00ebshtetjen q\u00eb i ofron, mb\u00ebshtetjen shpirt\u00ebrore p\u00ebr t\u00eb kultivuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb vlerat t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb domosdoshme p\u00ebr ruajtjen, p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrtimin dhe p\u00ebr mir\u00ebq\u00ebndrimin e familjes, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb koh\u00ebt e sotme kur ajo l\u00ebkundet, tronditet dhe goditet nga t\u00eb gjitha m\u00ebnyrat m\u00eb t\u00eb sofistikuara p\u00ebr t\u00eb goditur k\u00ebt\u00eb familje dhe ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht familjen tradicionale, si\u00e7 ne e jetojm\u00eb, si\u00e7 ne e kemi trash\u00ebguar dhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb q\u00ebnd\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre sulmeve t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye Kisha b\u00ebn vazhdimisht thirrje me predikimet e saj, b\u00ebn vazhdimisht lutje me jet\u00ebn e saj, me shembullin e saj dhe brenda familjes s\u00eb madhe t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs, i jepet nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi dhe familj\u00ebs s\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb familje t\u00eb madhe dhe pa familjen e vog\u00ebl, at\u00eb familjen b\u00ebrtham\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ne e trash\u00ebgojm\u00eb k\u00ebto koh\u00eb q\u00eb jetojm\u00eb.\u00a0
2. Ju e p\u00ebrmend\u00ebt pak m\u00eb par\u00eb se si familja n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme po tronditet nga dukuri brenda saj ose fenomene si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb dhuna, tradh\u00ebtia, divorci pse jo dhe indiferenca e prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebr edukimin e mir\u00eb t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. Por si ndihmon Kisha \u00a0prind\u00ebrit dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb kap\u00ebrcimin e k\u00ebtyre dukurive br\u00ebnda familjes?
\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb sot familja p\u00ebrjeton disa fenomene t\u00eb cilat ndoshta n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb kaluara nuk jan\u00eb hasur, kemi fenomene t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira q\u00eb hasim dhe d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb t\u00eb familjes, me fenomenet n\u00eb lidhje me bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt apo me prind\u00ebrit dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt gjithashtu dhe rezultat i k\u00ebtyre fenomeneve negative, shohim q\u00eb jan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e braktisur, f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt vuajn\u00eb munges\u00ebn jo vet\u00ebm munges\u00ebn fizike t\u00eb nj\u00eb prindi por edhe mb\u00ebshtetjen e tyre, shohim vazhdimisht q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb sjell\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb edukim n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb sotme, kur familje t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb k\u00ebto drama q\u00eb ne i d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsisht shum\u00eb dhe jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshta k\u00ebto koh\u00eb t\u00eb fundit, por jo vet\u00ebm kjo, sepse shohim edhe institucione t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk marrin masa dhe pse t\u00eb drejtat themelore t\u00eb njeriut n\u00eb Nenin 16, thuhet q\u00eb "Familja duhet mbrojtur", shohim q\u00eb disa interesa t\u00eb ndryshme k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb nxisin fenomene t\u00eb reja p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb koncept t\u00eb ri t\u00eb familjes dhe bazuar n\u00eb k\u00ebto koncepte t\u00eb reja, jan\u00eb t\u00eb panatyrshme p\u00ebr Kish\u00ebn ton\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma m\u00eb e dhimbshme, bazuar pra tek k\u00ebto fenomene negative.\u00a0
Si mund t'i mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb Kisha? S\u00eb pari Kisha me jet\u00ebn e saj ofron modelin e familjeve t\u00eb shenjta, bazuar n\u00eb modelin e Shenjtor\u00ebve. Shum\u00eb familje ne dim\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb, madje familje t\u00eb t\u00ebra si\u00e7 kujtuam Tre Hierark\u00ebt q\u00eb vijn\u00eb nga familje t\u00eb shenjta madje dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb personat, Sh\u00ebn Grigor Teolugut apo Sh\u00ebn Vasilit t\u00eb Madh, Sh\u00ebn Joan Gojarti gjithashtu bashk\u00eb me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij, pra jan\u00eb k\u00ebta Shenjtor\u00eb t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs t\u00eb cil\u00ebt Kisha i b\u00ebn modele, i promovon \u00e7do vit, i kujton dhe i p\u00ebr\u00e7on si nj\u00eb shembull p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb familjet dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr familjet e reja. Fenomenet negative jan\u00eb rrjedhoj\u00eb e nj\u00eb mos mb\u00ebshtetje t\u00eb familjes n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, kemi shum\u00eb fenomene pabarazie, fenomenet e pabarazis\u00eb sociale dhe k\u00ebto \u00e7ojn\u00eb atje ku f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb pamb\u00ebshtetur, prind\u00ebrit gjithashtu t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb pamb\u00ebshtetur dhe t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb mundur nj\u00eb dram\u00eb p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb, q\u00eb bie n\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim me m\u00ebsimet e Ungjillit, me tradit\u00ebn ton\u00eb dhe prandaj ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mesazhin e Kish\u00ebs, p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj, p\u00ebr familjet q\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb Kish\u00eb sepse vet\u00ebm duke patur familje t\u00eb forta, ne do t\u00eb kemi dhe nj\u00eb Kish\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb, do t\u00eb kemi dhe nj\u00eb komb m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb baza ku themelohet gjith\u00eb koncepti i Kish\u00ebs dhe i Kombit.\u00a0
3. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ne si t\u00eb Krishter\u00eb dhe nga m\u00ebsimi i Ungjillit, por nga katekizmi dhe predikimet gjithnj\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb p\u00ebr faljen q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn shpirt\u00ebrore. A mendoni q\u00eb falja \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u00eb thuash nj\u00eb zgjidhje apo ila\u00e7 apo dhe k\u00ebrkimi i ndjes\u00ebs duke u kultivuar brenda familjes, rip\u00ebrt\u00ebrin di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mir\u00eb br\u00ebnda k\u00ebsaj familje?
Sigurisht falja \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn njer\u00ebzore, \u00ebsht\u00eb virtyti shum\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e fort\u00eb sepse dim\u00eb se vet\u00ebm ata q\u00eb nuk falin jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb dob\u00ebt dhe sepse shpeshher\u00eb keqkuptohet virtyti i faljes, por Kisha Orthodhokse predikon si nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr virtytet baz\u00eb faljen, madje n\u00eb periudha t\u00eb caktuara dhe ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb hyrjen e Kreshm\u00ebs s\u00eb Madhe kemi nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb falurit ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, t\u00eb ndjes\u00ebs, p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb aren\u00ebn shpirt\u00ebrore dhe pa k\u00ebt\u00eb falje \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur q\u00eb ne t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha vlerat. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme dhe ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht familjet e reja kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb ta kultivojn\u00eb faljen e ndjes\u00ebs t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit dhe vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu mund t\u00eb ecet p\u00ebrpara dhe vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu mund t\u00eb kemi shoq\u00ebri e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e fort\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie p\u00ebrball\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo lloj fenomeni negativ. Kisha me jet\u00ebn e saj, me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ajo ofron me kampet, me katekizmin, me kampet verore n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb i ofron nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb arg\u00ebtimi por dhe me temat e saj sociale, p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ne t\u00eb kultivojm\u00eb dashurin\u00eb, faljen, g\u00ebzimin me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe me familjen dhe vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme familja q\u00eb duam, familja q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb, familja q\u00eb si\u00e7 e k\u00ebrkon dhe Zoti, Ungjilli i Kish\u00ebs ton\u00eb.\u00a0
4. Dhe pyetja e fundit q\u00eb doja t\u00eb b\u00ebja Dhimit\u00ebr, ne ndoshta e fol\u00ebm, e p\u00ebrmend\u00ebm, por nga ana praktike \u00e7far\u00eb duhet q\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb jet\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme dhe t\u00eb eci p\u00ebrpara duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb model p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr familjet m\u00eb t\u00eb reja?
Nga ana praktike sigurisht jeta shpirt\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb baza n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn praktikisht do t'i ndihmoj\u00eb familjet dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb familjet e reja, prandaj prezenca n\u00eb Kish\u00eb e familjeve si nj\u00eb shembull p\u00ebr familjet e tjera \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe e paz\u00ebvend\u00ebsueshme, por jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb Kish\u00eb edhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, kur ne shohim familjet q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe rrezatojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb frym\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb cil\u00ebt e marrin nga jeta e Kish\u00ebs, ata b\u00ebhen nj\u00eb shembull edhe p\u00ebr familjet e tjera q\u00eb jan\u00eb jobesimtare pra edhe p\u00ebr familjet n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi. Ndoshta e hasim shpeshher\u00eb br\u00ebnda familjes, q\u00eb dikush mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb besimtar\u00eb se sa personi tjet\u00ebr, megjithat\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb Apostull Pavlin q\u00eb thot\u00eb \u00a0se familjet duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb forta, nuk duhet t'i imponojm\u00eb besimin askujt, madje n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet gruas besimtare shenjt\u00ebrohet burri q\u00eb nuk kultivon besimin dhe e kund\u00ebrta, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i cili e kultivon besimin dhe nj\u00eb grua nuk e kultivon shenjt\u00ebrohet dhe ajo, k\u00ebt\u00eb nuk duhet ta harrojm\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb se besimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb, falja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb, jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb por vet\u00ebm t\u00eb kemi parasysh si dhurata q\u00eb k\u00ebto bazohen n\u00eb jet\u00ebn shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs. Sa m\u00eb t\u00eb kultivuar t\u00eb jemi shpirt\u00ebrisht aq m\u00eb t\u00eb forta do t\u00eb jen\u00eb familjet, aq m\u00eb i fort\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb populli dhe kombi. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb progres, nj\u00eb zhvillim t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm pa nj\u00eb jet\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore, pa virtytet shpirt\u00ebrore sepse jan\u00eb baza p\u00ebr kultivimin e vlerave, q\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsisht si\u00e7 e p\u00ebrmend\u00ebm dhe n\u00eb fillim gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb po reklamohen antivlerat, po reklamohen ato t\u00eb cilat bien n\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim me m\u00ebsimet e Ungjillit, me familjet tradicionale prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb thirrje edhe ndaj atyre q\u00eb kan\u00eb pushtet p\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruar m\u00eb shum\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur familjen bazuar dhe si nj\u00eb e drejt\u00eb themelore e njeriut. P\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruar sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje familjeve t\u00eb reja, p\u00ebr t\u00eb eleminuar sadopak pabarazit\u00eb sociale, pabarazit\u00eb ekonomike n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kemi familje t\u00eb shendetshme n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kemi t\u00eb trash\u00ebgojm\u00eb virtytet tradicionale dhe ato q\u00eb promovon Kisha vazhdimisht.
Dhjakon Aleksand\u00ebr Dimro\u00e7i:
z. Dhimit\u00ebr, ne ju falenderojm\u00eb dhe largohemi nga Kisha e Apostull Pavlit dhe Sh\u00ebn Astit dhe me p\u00ebrshtypjet nga m\u00eb t\u00eb mirat sepse pam\u00eb dhe pjes\u00ebmarrje masive n\u00eb Kish\u00eb n\u00eb Liturgjin\u00eb e s\u00eb Diel\u00ebs q\u00eb sapo mbaroi dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb na ra n\u00eb sy dhe pjes\u00ebmarrja e t\u00eb gjitha grupmoshave dhe pjes\u00ebmarrja e familjeve, pra prind\u00ebr, f\u00ebmij\u00eb, gjysh\u00ebr dhe d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb t'ju p\u00ebrg\u00ebzojm\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn tuaj, p\u00ebr ndihmes\u00ebn q\u00eb jepni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb Enori, bashk\u00eb me klerik\u00ebt q\u00eb jan\u00eb k\u00ebtu At\u00eb Gjerasimi dhe At\u00eb Spiro por edhe bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb tjer\u00eb klerik\u00eb dhe laik\u00eb. Faleminderit!
z. Dhimit\u00ebr Qosja: Faleminderit juve dhe gjith\u00eb d\u00ebgjuesve t\u00eb Media Ngjallja! P\u00ebrpiqemi edhe ne, n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme brenda problematikave t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj shoq\u00ebrie q\u00eb t\u00eb ofrojm\u00eb sadopak vlerat e krishtera p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb komb q\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Orthodhoksia \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb popull, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb v\u00ebnd e p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb komb me jet\u00ebn e saj, me kultur\u00ebn e saj, me historin\u00eb e saj dhe sigurisht me familjet e saj.
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