{"id":94881,"date":"2026-06-01T18:38:49","date_gmt":"2026-06-01T16:38:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/martesa-dhe-familja-ne-kishen-orthodhokse\/"},"modified":"2026-06-01T18:38:49","modified_gmt":"2026-06-01T16:38:49","slug":"martesa-dhe-familja-ne-kishen-orthodhokse","status":"publish","type":"ngjallja_article","link":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/martesa-dhe-familja-ne-kishen-orthodhokse\/","title":{"rendered":"Martesa dhe familja n\u00eb Kish\u00ebn Orthodhokse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kisha Ortodokse m\u00ebson se nj\u00eb<br \/>\nfamilje e sh\u00ebndetshme nd\u00ebrtohet<br \/>\nmbi shenjt\u00ebrin\u00eb e martes\u00ebs. N\u00eb m\u00eb-<br \/>\nsimin e saj afirmohet, pa asnj\u00eb ekui-<br \/>\nvok, shenjt\u00ebria e martes\u00ebs, si nj\u00eb<br \/>\ndoktrin\u00eb themelore e padiskutue-<br \/>\nshme dhe e patjet\u00ebrsueshme. Ba-<br \/>\nshkimi i lir\u00eb, nd\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb burri<br \/>\ndhe nj\u00eb gruaje \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kusht i<br \/>\ndomosdosh\u00ebm ( sine qua non)  i<br \/>\nmartes\u00ebs dhe martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb baza<br \/>\ne zemra e familjes. Martesa konsi-<br \/>\nderohet si institucioni m\u00eb i vjet\u00ebr i<br \/>\ns\u00eb drejt\u00ebs hyjnore, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb the-<br \/>\nmeluar n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb kur u kri-<br \/>\njuan edhe njer\u00ebzit e par\u00eb, Adami e<br \/>\nEva (Gjeneza 2:23). Bibla na m\u00ebson<br \/>\nqart\u00eb se Per\u00ebndia e themeloi marte-<br \/>\ns\u00ebn, si nj\u00eb bes\u00eblidhje nd\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb<br \/>\nburri e nj\u00eb gruaje dhe e bekoi at\u00eb,<br \/>\nduke i dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb karakter sakra-<br \/>\nmental. T\u00eb bashkuar n\u00eb Per\u00ebndin\u00eb<br \/>\najo b\u00ebhet jo vet\u00ebm thjesht nj\u00eb lidhje<br \/>\nnatyrale konvencionale, p\u00ebr t\u00eb sigu-<br \/>\nruar vazhdim\u00ebsin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb gji-<br \/>\nndjes njer\u00ebzore, por edhe nj\u00eb ba-<br \/>\nshkim shpirt\u00ebror e nj\u00eb forc\u00eb krijuese<br \/>\nshpirt\u00ebrore, p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar theme-<br \/>\nlin, mbi t\u00eb cilin mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtohet<br \/>\ninstitucioni i shenjt\u00eb i familjes.<br \/>\nMbrojtja e shenjt\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb martes\u00ebs<br \/>\nka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsie<br \/>\nkryesore p\u00ebr mbrojtjen e familjes.<br \/>\nDuke komentuar fjal\u00ebt e Ungjillit<br \/>\nkur Zoti thot\u00eb se kudo q\u00eb dy a tre<br \/>\njan\u00eb bashkuar n\u00eb emrin tim, un\u00eb<br \/>\njam n\u00eb mes t\u00eb tyre (Matth.18:20),<br \/>\nsh\u00ebn Klementi i Aleksandris\u00eb<br \/>\nshkruan: \u201cKush jan\u00eb dy ose tre<br \/>\nbashkuar n\u00eb emrin e Krishtit n\u00eb<br \/>\nMartesa dhe familja<br \/>\nn\u00eb Kish\u00ebn Orthodhokse<br \/>\nmes t\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebve Per\u00ebndia \u00ebsht\u00eb i<br \/>\nPranish\u00ebm? A nuk jan\u00eb burri<br \/>\ndhe gruaja dhe f\u00ebmija q\u00eb jan\u00eb<br \/>\nbashkuar n\u00eb Per\u00ebndin\u00eb?\u201d (Stro-<br \/>\nmatat 3,10,68). Bashkimi i burrit<br \/>\ndhe gruas, n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet bekimit dhe<br \/>\npranis\u00eb s\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, e b\u00ebn lidhjen<br \/>\nm\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe e ngre n\u00eb nj\u00eb<br \/>\nshkall\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. Prandaj martesa<br \/>\nnd\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb burri dhe nj\u00eb gruaje,<br \/>\nbekuar nga vet\u00eb Per\u00ebndia, \u00ebsht\u00eb<br \/>\nb\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb mister i shenjt\u00eb, nj\u00eb sakra-<br \/>\nment. Filozofi Soren Kierkegaard<br \/>\n(1813-1855), n\u00eb librin e tij Veprat e<br \/>\nDashuris\u00eb, thekson k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb t\u00eb<br \/>\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme: \u201cDituria e bot\u00ebs me-<br \/>\nndon se dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje<br \/>\nnd\u00ebrmjet burrit e gruas. Krishte-<br \/>\nrimi m\u00ebson se dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb<br \/>\nlidhje nd\u00ebrmjet burrit &#8211; Per\u00ebndi-<br \/>\nSi\u00e7 dihet dhe pranohet nga t\u00eb<br \/>\ngjith\u00eb, familja \u00ebsht\u00eb qeliza fillestare<br \/>\ne jet\u00ebs shoq\u00ebrore dhe guri baz\u00eb p\u00ebr<br \/>\nnd\u00ebrtimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Familja<br \/>\n\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb komunitet i jet\u00ebs dhe i da-<br \/>\nshuris\u00eb, themeluar mbi martes\u00ebn,<br \/>\np\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur \u00e7do an\u00ebtar t\u00eb saj.<br \/>\nAjo na jep identitetin dhe ndijimin<br \/>\ne p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe brenda saj ne<br \/>\naft\u00ebsohemi t\u00eb bashk\u00ebndajm\u00eb p\u00ebrvo-<br \/>\njat e p\u00ebrditshme, si edhe na ndihmon<br \/>\nt\u2019i japim jet\u00ebs son\u00eb kuptim dhe q\u00eb-<br \/>\nllim. Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr<br \/>\nt\u2019u rritur n\u00eb virtyte, si n\u00eb dashuri,<br \/>\nbujari, n\u00eb falje dhe n\u00eb durim. Sta-<br \/>\nbiliteti dhe nj\u00eb jet\u00eb e nd\u00ebrlidhjeve<br \/>\nt\u00eb drejta dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosha brenda<br \/>\nfamiljes p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb gjithashtu edhe<br \/>\nthemelet p\u00ebr lirin\u00eb, sigurin\u00eb dhe<br \/>\nv\u00ebllaz\u00ebrin\u00eb brenda shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Njeriu<br \/>\nfamilje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosha. R\u00ebnd\u00ebsia e<br \/>\nfamiljes p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dhe mir\u00ebqenien<br \/>\ne shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb rris\u00eb p\u00ebr-<br \/>\ngjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mb\u00eb-<br \/>\nshtetur e forcuar martes\u00ebn dhe fa-<br \/>\nmiljen, si edhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsoj\u00eb p\u00ebr<br \/>\ntradit\u00ebn e favorshme kulturore, e<br \/>\ncila \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e dobishme p\u00ebr<br \/>\nruajtjen e tyre. Gjithashtu, edhe auto-<br \/>\nritetet civile duhet ta konsiderojn\u00eb<br \/>\nsi nj\u00eb detyr\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme njohjen<br \/>\ne natyr\u00ebs s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb martes\u00ebs e<br \/>\nt\u00eb familjes, t\u2019i mbrojn\u00eb ato, t\u00eb<br \/>\nruajn\u00eb moralitetin publik dhe t\u00eb pro-<br \/>\nmovojn\u00eb begatin\u00eb e familjes.<br \/>\nSh\u00ebn Klementi i Aleksandris\u00eb e<br \/>\np\u00ebrshkruan familjen, si nj\u00eb kish\u00eb dhe<br \/>\nsi nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa<br \/>\nsh\u00ebn Joan Gojarti e quan familjen<br \/>\n\u201ckish\u00eb e vog\u00ebl\u201d. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nj\u00eb bu-<br \/>\nNga Hir\u00ebsia e Tij Joani,<br \/>\nMitropolit i Kor\u00e7\u00ebs<br \/>\n(Vijon n\u00eb faqen 4)<br \/>\ns\u00eb &#8211; gruas, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se Per\u00eb-<br \/>\nndia \u00ebsht\u00eb hallka lidh\u00ebse.\u201d \u00cbsht\u00eb<br \/>\npik\u00ebrisht kjo lidhje n\u00eb Per\u00ebndin\u00eb q\u00eb<br \/>\ne b\u00ebn martes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe si<br \/>\npasoj\u00eb edhe familjen m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndo-<br \/>\nsh\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebr t\u00eb krishter\u00ebt, mar-<br \/>\ntesa b\u00ebhet jo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb kontrat\u00eb e<br \/>\nthjesht\u00eb ligjore e nj\u00eb mjet riprodhimi<br \/>\ndhe p\u00ebrmbushjeje e nevojave naty-<br \/>\nrore, por, sipas sh\u00ebn Joan Gojartit,<br \/>\n\u201cnj\u00eb sakrament i dashuris\u00eb\u201d, nj\u00eb<br \/>\nbashkim i p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm i bashk\u00eb-<br \/>\nshort\u00ebve n\u00eb Krishtin.<br \/>\n\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb qenie komunitare dhe<br \/>\nfamilja \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht komuniteti<br \/>\nku, qysh prej f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb, ne m\u00ebsojm\u00eb<br \/>\nvlerat morale, t\u00eb duam, t\u00eb nderojm\u00eb<br \/>\ndhe  t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Aty<br \/>\nne mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb gjithashtu t\u00eb<br \/>\nkujdesemi p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, sidomos<br \/>\np\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebtit, sepse, moskulti-<br \/>\nvimi i k\u00ebsaj, i gjen familjet n\u00eb raste<br \/>\nnevoje t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgatitura. Jeta e fa-<br \/>\nmiljes \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb inicim n\u00eb jet\u00ebn n\u00eb<br \/>\nshoq\u00ebri. \u00cbsht\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb kemi sho-<br \/>\nq\u00ebri t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosha, n\u00ebse nuk kemi<br \/>\nrr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua, t\u00eb bashkuar n\u00eb<br \/>\nmartes\u00eb n\u00eb Per\u00ebndin\u00eb, formojn\u00eb nj\u00eb<br \/>\nkish\u00eb sht\u00ebpiake. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt b\u00ebhen fryt<br \/>\ni dashuris\u00eb dhe i bashkimit t\u00eb tyre<br \/>\ndhe lindja dhe rritja e tyre i p\u00ebrket,<br \/>\nsipas m\u00ebsimit t\u00eb kish\u00ebs orthodho-<br \/>\nkse, nj\u00ebrit prej q\u00ebllimeve m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebn-<br \/>\nd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb martes\u00ebs. \u201cJa, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt<br \/>\njan\u00eb nj\u00eb trash\u00ebgimi q\u00eb vjen nga<br \/>\nZoti: dhe fryti i barkut \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb<br \/>\nshp\u00ebrblim\u201d, th\u00ebrret psalmisti (Ps.<br \/>\n127:3). \u201cF\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb nj\u00eb<br \/>\n(Ky referat u mbajt n\u00eb Kon-<br \/>\nferenc\u00ebn me tem\u00eb \u201cBesimi fetar<br \/>\ndhe familja n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri\u201d, q\u00eb<br \/>\n\u00ebsht\u00eb organizuar nga Fonda-<br \/>\ncioni \u201cN\u00eb familje, p\u00ebr fami-<br \/>\nljen\u201d, dhe po zhvillohet n\u00eb disa<br \/>\nqytete, si n\u00eb Kor\u00e7\u00eb, Shkod\u00ebr, Ti-<br \/>\nran\u00eb etj. Kjo veprimtari kryhet<br \/>\nme mb\u00ebshtetjen e Fondit Ka-<br \/>\nnadez p\u00ebr Nisma Lokale.)<\/p>\n<p>p\u00ebrfitim rast\u00ebsor; ne kemi p\u00ebr-<br \/>\ngjegj\u00ebsi p\u00ebr shp\u00ebtimin e tyre\u2026<br \/>\nMoskujdesja p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb<br \/>\nm\u00eb i madhi i t\u00eb gjitha m\u00ebkateve,<br \/>\nmeqen\u00ebse ai t\u00eb \u00e7on n\u00eb pabesin\u00eb<br \/>\nekstreme \u2026 Nuk ka shfaj\u00ebsim<br \/>\np\u00ebr ne, n\u00ebse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb<br \/>\nprishur\u201d,  shkruan sh\u00ebn Joan<br \/>\nGojarti. \u201cNj\u00eb at\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk<br \/>\n\u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb ka lindur f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por<br \/>\nai q\u00eb i rrit dhe i m\u00ebson mir\u00eb ata\u201d,<br \/>\nshprehet sh\u00ebn Tihoni i Zadonskut.<br \/>\nShkrimi i Shenjt\u00eb thekson me forc\u00eb<br \/>\nsi detyr\u00ebn e prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebr t\u2019u kuj-<br \/>\ndesur p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, ashtu edhe t\u00eb<br \/>\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb nderuar prind\u00ebrit:<br \/>\nNdero atin t\u00ebnd dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn t\u00ebnde:<br \/>\nq\u00eb dit\u00ebn e tua t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb gjata n\u00eb<br \/>\ntok\u00eb &#8211; lexohet n\u00eb urdh\u00ebrimin e pe-<br \/>\nst\u00eb. N\u00eb Dhiat\u00ebn e Vjet\u00ebr, mos-<br \/>\nrespekti p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit shihet si faji<br \/>\nm\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Po ashtu edhe Dhiata<br \/>\ne Re i m\u00ebson f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u2019u binden pri-<br \/>\nnd\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre me dashuri. \u201cF\u00ebmi-<br \/>\nj\u00eb, bindjuni prind\u00ebrve tuaj n\u00eb t\u00eb<br \/>\ngjitha gj\u00ebrat: sepse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e<br \/>\np\u00eblqyeshme te Zoti.\u201d (Kol. 3:20).<br \/>\nM\u00ebsimi social i Kish\u00ebs Or-<br \/>\nthodhokse thekson se familja, si<br \/>\nnj\u00eb kish\u00eb sht\u00ebpiake, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb orga-<br \/>\nniz\u00ebm unik, an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs jetoj-<br \/>\nn\u00eb dhe i nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb lidhjet e tyre n\u00eb<br \/>\nbaz\u00eb t\u00eb ligjit t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb. P\u00ebrvoja<br \/>\ne lidhjeve familjare e m\u00ebson nj\u00eb<br \/>\nperson ta kap\u00ebrcej\u00eb egoizmin shka-<br \/>\nt\u00ebrrues dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb themelet p\u00ebr<br \/>\nndjenj\u00ebn e  detyr\u00ebs s\u00eb tij qytetare.<br \/>\nN\u00eb familje, pik\u00ebrisht si n\u00eb nj\u00eb<br \/>\nshkoll\u00eb devocioni, krijohet q\u00ebndrimi<br \/>\ni drejt\u00eb ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, i cili m\u00eb pas<br \/>\nvazhdon edhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri. Vazhdi-<br \/>\nm\u00ebsia e gjall\u00eb e brezave, q\u00eb fillon<br \/>\nn\u00eb familje, pasohet n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e<br \/>\nparaardh\u00ebsve dhe t\u00eb atdheut, si<br \/>\nedhe n\u00eb ndijimin e pjes\u00ebmarrjes n\u00eb<br \/>\nhistori. Prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e rre-<br \/>\nzikshme t\u00eb shtremb\u00ebrohen lidhjet<br \/>\ntradicionale prind\u00ebr-f\u00ebmij\u00eb, q\u00eb<br \/>\nfatkeq\u00ebsisht jan\u00eb rrezikuar n\u00eb m\u00eb-<br \/>\nnyra t\u00eb ndryshme nga m\u00ebnyra e<br \/>\njetes\u00ebs bashk\u00ebkohore, duke shkak-<br \/>\ntuar gjithashtu zhvillimin e largimit<br \/>\ndhe antagonizmit nd\u00ebrmjet brezave.<br \/>\nRoli i familjes n\u00eb formimin e per-<br \/>\nsonalitetit \u00ebsht\u00eb i jasht\u00ebzakon-<br \/>\nsh\u00ebm; asnj\u00eb institucion social tjet\u00ebr<br \/>\nnuk mund ta z\u00ebvend\u00ebsoj\u00eb at\u00eb. Ero-<br \/>\nzioni i lidhjeve familjare sjell<br \/>\nn\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb paevitueshme defor-<br \/>\nmimin e zhvillimit normal t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb-<br \/>\nve dhe l\u00eb tek ata nj\u00eb gjurm\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebr-<br \/>\nhershme dhe, deri n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb mase,<br \/>\nt\u00eb pashlyeshme. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb jan\u00eb<br \/>\nbraktisur nga prind\u00ebrit, q\u00eb mbushin<br \/>\njetimoret dhe q\u00eb shpesh e gjejn\u00eb<br \/>\nveten n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00eb, tregojn\u00eb s\u00eb-<br \/>\nmundjen e thell\u00eb t\u00eb familjes dhe t\u00eb<br \/>\nshoq\u00ebris\u00eb sot. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb detyr\u00eb e<br \/>\ngjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb dhe sidomos<br \/>\nMartesa dhe familja<br \/>\nn\u00eb Kish\u00ebn Orthodhokse<br \/>\nnjer\u00ebzore, ndihet e rrezikuar  nga<br \/>\ntentativat p\u00ebr t\u00eb ligj\u00ebruar lidhje<br \/>\njonatyrore. Duhet t\u00eb kemi gjith-<br \/>\nmon\u00eb parasysh se familja dhe<br \/>\nmartesa jan\u00eb ide e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb dhe,<br \/>\nsi institucione hyjnore; nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb<br \/>\nhapura p\u00ebr ndryshime dhe devijime<br \/>\nnjer\u00ebzore. N\u00eb deklarat\u00ebn finale t\u00eb<br \/>\nkonferenc\u00ebs \u201cT\u00eb krishter\u00ebt p\u00ebrball\u00eb<br \/>\nsfidave p\u00ebr familjen\u201d, Kaunas<br \/>\n(Lituania) 10 janar 2011 thuhet:<br \/>\n\u201c&#8230; Vet\u00ebm familja e bazuar mbi<br \/>\nmartes\u00ebn krijon ambientin, ku<br \/>\npersoni njer\u00ebzor mund t\u00eb zihet<br \/>\nme dinjitet, t\u00eb lindet me dinjitet<br \/>\ndhe t\u00eb rritet e zhvillohet me dinji-<br \/>\ntet, n\u00eb \u00e7do aspekt.  Por, sot, ky<br \/>\n(Vijon nga faqja 3)<br \/>\ne autoriteteve shtet\u00ebrore dhe e<br \/>\nkomunitetetve fetare, p\u00ebr t\u2019u dh\u00ebn\u00eb<br \/>\nk\u00ebtyre f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nj\u00eb ndihmes\u00eb<br \/>\nmateriale dhe shpirt\u00ebrore. Kisha e<br \/>\nkonsideron si nj\u00eb nga detyrat e saj<br \/>\nm\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin<br \/>\ne detyr\u00ebs s\u00eb shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb prind\u00ebrimit,<br \/>\np\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur tragjedit\u00eb e f\u00ebmi-<br \/>\nj\u00ebve t\u00eb braktisur.<br \/>\nKultura bashk\u00ebkohore \u00ebsht\u00eb sot<br \/>\nn\u00eb nj\u00eb kriz\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me<br \/>\nmartes\u00ebn dhe familjen. N\u00eb sho-<br \/>\nq\u00ebrit\u00eb e sotme postmoderne, fa-<br \/>\nmilja, e bazuar n\u00eb vlerat hyjnore dhe<br \/>\nmision themelor i familjes pen-<br \/>\ngohet, n\u00eb nj\u00eb mas\u00eb t\u00eb konsi-<br \/>\nderueshme, nga nj\u00eb kuptim i<br \/>\nrrem\u00eb i liris\u00eb, q\u00eb e v\u00eb institucionin<br \/>\ne familjes, s\u00eb bazuar mbi marte-<br \/>\ns\u00ebn, n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin plan me \u2018ba-<br \/>\nshkime\u2019 e forma t\u00eb tjera bashk\u00eb-<br \/>\njetimi dhe partneriteti.\u201d<br \/>\nSi p\u00ebrfundim mund t\u00eb themi se<br \/>\nshoq\u00ebria e sotme ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i<br \/>\nrizbuluar dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb norm\u00eb<br \/>\nt\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj vlerat e patjet\u00ebrsue-<br \/>\nshme. Sepse ndodh shpesh her\u00eb,<br \/>\nq\u00eb n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb progresit dhe zhvi-<br \/>\nllimit, jan\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar vlerat dhe<br \/>\nlidhjet tradicionale, duke e d\u00ebmtuar<br \/>\nr\u00ebnd\u00eb familjen, martes\u00ebn dhe vet\u00eb<br \/>\npersonin njer\u00ebzor. T\u00eb ruash vlerat<br \/>\nnuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh kund\u00ebr pro-<br \/>\ngresit, por, p\u00ebrkundrazi, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb<br \/>\nt\u2019i sigurosh progresit baz\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb<br \/>\ndomosdoshme, pa t\u00eb cil\u00ebn, gjith\u00e7ka<br \/>\ndo t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb drejt degradimit, korru-<br \/>\npsionit dhe shkat\u00ebrrimit. Besimi n\u00eb<br \/>\nPer\u00ebndin\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb garanci p\u00ebr<br \/>\nruajtjen e k\u00ebtyre vlerave jetike p\u00ebr<br \/>\nnjer\u00ebzimin. Fjal\u00ebt e famshme t\u00eb<br \/>\nDostojevskit, se, n\u00ebse Per\u00ebndia<br \/>\nnuk ekziston, t\u00eb gjitha jan\u00eb t\u00eb le-<br \/>\njueshme, mund t\u00eb shihen t\u00eb rea-<br \/>\nlizuara, me t\u00eb gjitha pasojat tra-<br \/>\ngjike, n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha familjet dhe sho-<br \/>\nq\u00ebrit\u00eb q\u00eb e kan\u00eb larguar Per\u00ebndin\u00eb<br \/>\nnga jeta e tyre e p\u00ebrditshme. Sepse,<br \/>\nduke mos pranuar ekzistenc\u00ebn e<br \/>\nPer\u00ebndis\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb pranohet<br \/>\nas Ligji Moral, dh\u00ebn\u00eb nga Per\u00ebndia.<br \/>\nDuke mos qen\u00eb Ligji Moral, nuk<br \/>\nmund t\u00eb ket\u00eb besnik\u00ebri e duke mos<br \/>\npasur besnik\u00ebri, nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb<br \/>\nmartes\u00eb. Duke mos pasur nj\u00eb mar-<br \/>\ntes\u00eb normale, nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb<br \/>\nfamilje normale dhe, duke mos pa-<br \/>\nsur nj\u00eb familje normale, ne nuk<br \/>\nmund t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri normale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Material nga Shkurt 2016.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"","numri":"2 (277)","viti":"2016","muaji":"Shkurt","muaji_numer":"2","dita":"","faqet":"[3, 4]","fjale_kyce":"[\"Martesa\", \"familja\", \"Kish\u00ebn\", \"Orthodhokse\"]","permbledhje":"Material nga Shkurt 2016.","autori":"","kategoria":"Artikull","kryeredaktor":"Thoma Dhima"},"ngjallja_kategoria":[9653],"ngjallja_autori":[],"ngjallja_viti":[12833],"ngjallja_kryeredaktor":[9473],"class_list":["post-94881","ngjallja_article","type-ngjallja_article","status-publish","hentry","ngjallja_kategoria-artikull","ngjallja_viti-12833","ngjallja_kryeredaktor-thoma-dhima"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - 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