N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb festimi t\u00eb shenjtorit, apostullit dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb Zotit, duhet t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme edhe p\u00ebr ne. Ky apostull i dashuris\u00eb predikoi vazhdimisht q\u00eb t\u00eb duam nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Tregohet, kur ishte shum\u00eb i vjet\u00ebr, nj\u00eb histori q\u00eb e keni d\u00ebgjuar, por shpeshher\u00eb ne i p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisim disa gj\u00ebra, sepse jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Si\u00e7 ju kam th\u00ebn\u00eb disa her\u00eb, p\u00ebrse Zoti i p\u00ebrs\u00ebrit kaq shum\u00eb n\u00eb Ungjillin e Sh\u00ebn Joanit fjal\u00ebt: Doni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin?<\/p>\n
I p\u00ebrs\u00ebrit vazhdimisht, sepse zemra jon\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm se zbutet pak me uj\u00eb, po duhet vazhdimisht q\u00eb t\u00eb goditet, t\u00eb hapet. Dhe kur Sh\u00ebn Joani ishte shum\u00eb i vjet\u00ebr mbi 100 vje\u00e7, filloi mos t\u2019ju m\u00ebsonte shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve, po ju thoshte gjithmon\u00eb doni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Mund ta merrni me mend duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb po k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, dy dit\u00eb, nj\u00eb jav\u00eb, dy jav\u00eb, nj\u00eb muaj, nj\u00eb vit. Nj\u00eb her\u00eb Prohori, nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi i dashur i thot\u00eb: – M\u00ebsues, Per\u00ebndia t\u00eb ka zbuluar ty Misteret m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, ke q\u00ebndruar bashk\u00eb me Zotin, pse nuk na m\u00ebson gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera, po na thua vazhdimisht doni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin?!<\/p>\n
– Edhe shenjti iu p\u00ebrgjigj dhe i tha; – Doni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft! N\u00ebse ne do ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb realisht k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, e kemi realizuar gjith\u00eb ligjin dhe m\u00ebsimin e Zotit.<\/p>\n
\u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ta duam nj\u00ebri-tjetrin?<\/p>\n
Sot, dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb shtremb\u00ebruar pak. Duke i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk i duam, por i \u00e7ojm\u00eb akoma e m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb gabim. Un\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb dua, thot\u00eb Zoti, e qortoj. N\u00ebse shohim v\u00ebllain ton\u00eb q\u00eb po bie n\u00eb gremin\u00eb edhe nuk i themi gj\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe faji yn\u00eb. Nuk i themi gj\u00eb, se s\u2019duam q\u00eb t\u00eb prishemi, nuk i themi gj\u00eb, se ndoshta ai mund t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb keq p\u00ebr ne dhe themi \u00e7\u2019m\u00eb duhet mua? Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri.<\/p>\n
Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh e mos ta l\u00ebsh tjetrin t\u00eb bjer\u00eb n\u00eb gremin\u00eb. S\u2019ka asnj\u00eb dashuri m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe sesa Per\u00ebndia. E megjithat\u00eb Ai thot\u00eb po k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb si\u00e7 ju thash\u00eb pak m\u00eb par\u00eb: Un\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb dua e qortoj. Prandaj dhe shenjtor\u00ebt e m\u00ebdhenj i qortonin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt; i qortonin q\u00eb t\u00eb ktheheshin n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e drejt\u00eb. Edhe nj\u00eb prind i devotsh\u00ebm q\u00eb e do realisht f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tij, e qorton. Prandaj dhe proverbat thon\u00eb: Kush i kursen qortimin dhe disiplin\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, e ka prishur f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tij. P\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelia nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri, por shtremb\u00ebrim i dashuris\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Prandaj dit\u00ebn e sotme pik\u00ebrisht duhet t\u00eb meditojm\u00eb rreth dashuris\u00eb q\u00eb ka Zoti p\u00ebr ne. Kur gabojm\u00eb, na qorton. Na qorton, sepse na do. N\u00ebse nuk i qortojm\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kur b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabim, nuk i duam ata. Pastaj, njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb problemin me pranimin e qortimit. Si\u00e7 thot\u00eb dhe Solomoni i men\u00e7ur: Qorto nj\u00eb t\u00eb men\u00e7ur dhe do kesh nj\u00eb mik, qorto nj\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb dhe do kesh nj\u00eb armik. Sepse i men\u00e7uri e kupton q\u00eb ti e ke qortuar, ngaq\u00eb e do. Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht kjo gj\u00eb: Nj\u00eb dashuri q\u00eb i afrohet dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, q\u00eb i do t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit, kushdo qofshin ata, madje edhe armiqt\u00eb e tij.<\/p>\n
Ju kam treguar nj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb histori nga Sh\u00ebn Paisi i Madh. Nj\u00eb nga nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit e tij e mohoi Krishtin dhe u largua. Sh\u00ebn Paisi lutej dit\u00eb e nat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Pas nj\u00eb viti iu shfaq Krishti dhe i thot\u00eb: – Pais, po lutesh p\u00ebr nj\u00eb nga armiqt\u00eb e mi? Ai thot\u00eb: – Po, o Zot.<\/p>\n
– T\u00eb lumt\u00eb, Pais, – i thot\u00eb – je b\u00ebr\u00eb i ngjash\u00ebm me mua.<\/p>\n
Kjo dashuri e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb do dhe armiqt\u00eb, ajo dashuri q\u00eb qorton edhe mikun e tij, kur b\u00ebn gabim, \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria q\u00eb na m\u00ebson Per\u00ebndia q\u00eb ne duhet t\u00eb kemi! Le t\u00eb mundohemi ta kemi k\u00ebt\u00eb dashuri. Se nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb ka n\u00eb shpirt dashurin\u00eb, do t\u00eb ket\u00eb g\u00ebzim. Njeriu q\u00eb ruan inatin, q\u00eb ka m\u00ebri kund\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, tek ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm Zoti. M\u00ebria e shkat\u00ebrron njeriun, edhe fizikisht edhe shpirt\u00ebrisht. Dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i largon k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra. Ne nuk i duam vet\u00ebm njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb jan\u00eb thjesht t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Duhet t\u2019i duam t\u00eb gjith\u00eb! Zoti na thot\u00eb: \u201cDoni dhe armiqt\u00eb tuaj\u201d! E n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kemi k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj dashurie, do t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm me Per\u00ebndin\u00eb, sepse njeriu u krijua sipas ikon\u00ebs s\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb e kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit, por u shtremb\u00ebrua. Po njeriu u krijua edhe me mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb i ngjash\u00ebm me Zotin. N\u00eb t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn njeriu i par\u00eb ra dhe Zoti erdhi dhe u mish\u00ebrua dhe u b\u00eb si nj\u00ebri nga ne, p\u00ebr t\u00eb na hapur p\u00ebrs\u00ebri rrug\u00ebn. Jo thjesht q\u00eb t\u00eb pastrojm\u00eb ikon\u00ebn ton\u00eb, por t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi dhe t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm si Ai, q\u00eb t\u00eb kemi dashurin\u00eb e Tij.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb ju uroj t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve g\u00ebzuar dhe p\u00ebr shum\u00eb vjet k\u00ebt\u00eb fest\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb Apostullit t\u00eb Dashuris\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Fjala e Kryepiskopit Joan p\u00ebr dit\u00ebn e fest\u00ebs s\u00eb Apostullit Joan mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb: dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb qorton, nuk p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel, dhe p\u00ebrfshin edhe armiqt\u00eb. P\u00ebrdoren shembujt e Apostullit Joan, Prohorit dhe Sh\u00ebn Paisit t\u00eb Madh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"","numri":"5 (384)","viti":"2025","muaji":"Shtator","muaji_numer":"9","dita":"","faqet":"[9, 10]","fjale_kyce":"[\"Kryepiskopi Joan\", \"Apostulli Joan\", \"dashuria\", \"Prohori\", \"Sh\u00ebn Paisi i Madh\", \"ungjilli\", \"qortim\", \"ngjasimi me Per\u00ebndin\u00eb\"]","permbledhje":"Fjala e Kryepiskopit Joan p\u00ebr dit\u00ebn e fest\u00ebs s\u00eb Apostullit Joan mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb: dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb qorton, nuk p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel, dhe p\u00ebrfshin edhe armiqt\u00eb. P\u00ebrdoren shembujt e Apostullit Joan, Prohorit dhe Sh\u00ebn Paisit t\u00eb Madh.","autori":"Kryepiskopi Joan","kategoria":"Fjalim","kryeredaktor":""},"ngjallja_kategoria":[9245],"ngjallja_autori":[11951],"ngjallja_viti":[11902],"ngjallja_kryeredaktor":[],"class_list":["post-90633","ngjallja_article","type-ngjallja_article","status-publish","hentry","ngjallja_kategoria-fjalim","ngjallja_autori-kryepiskopi-joan","ngjallja_viti-11902"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n