{"id":90089,"date":"2026-06-01T07:55:45","date_gmt":"2026-06-01T05:55:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/ndaje-dhimbjen-me-tjetrin\/"},"modified":"2026-06-01T07:55:45","modified_gmt":"2026-06-01T05:55:45","slug":"ndaje-dhimbjen-me-tjetrin","status":"publish","type":"ngjallja_article","link":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/ndaje-dhimbjen-me-tjetrin\/","title":{"rendered":"Ndaje dhimbjen me tjetrin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nga at\u00eb Haralampos Papadopoulos<\/p>\n<p>Ndaje t\u00eb keqen q\u00eb t\u00eb err\u00ebson shpirtin me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Fol, edhe sikur t\u00eb t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh me er\u00ebn, si\u00e7 thoshte Grigor Theologu, ky shenjt i ndjesh\u00ebm e i brisht\u00eb. Ai e dinte mir\u00eb se \u00e7do t\u00eb thot\u00eb vetmi dhe dhimbje.<\/p>\n<p>Kur vuajm\u00eb, kur mendimet na e mbushin shpirtin me trishtim, frik\u00eb dhe p\u00ebshtjellim, at\u00ebher\u00eb ndiejm\u00eb nj\u00eb vetmi t\u00eb pafund. &#8220;A thua t\u00eb jem vet\u00ebm un\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje? Kujt t&#8217;ia them at\u00eb q\u00eb ndiej? Do t\u00eb m\u00eb marrin, thua, p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7mendur apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb?&#8221;. Arrijm\u00eb deri n\u00eb at\u00eb pik\u00eb se m\u00eb tep\u00ebr vuajm\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre mendimeve sesa p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb vet\u00eb problemit.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb vuajtur q\u00eb n\u00eb vog\u00ebli, ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb munduar p\u00ebr vite me radh\u00eb, kan\u00eb fituar nj\u00eb nuhatje ekzistenciale t\u00eb paimagjinueshme, saq\u00eb arrijn\u00eb ta nuhasin prej s\u00eb largu at\u00eb q\u00eb vuan, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7lirohen prej vetmis\u00eb s\u00eb t\u00eb qenit t\u00eb &#8220;stigmatizuar&#8221;, t\u00eb &#8220;mallkuar&#8221; apo t\u00eb &#8220;mjer\u00eb&#8221;. Dhe, sapo gjejn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb vuan nj\u00eblloj si ata, g\u00ebzohen. Brenda tyre shp\u00ebrthen nj\u00eb g\u00ebzim i pabesuesh\u00ebm. Dhe kjo u ndodh jo p\u00ebr shkak se tjetri vuan, por ngaq\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb Golgot\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ti ke d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb dish q\u00eb diku ndodhet qoft\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb person q\u00eb e kupton se \u00e7far\u00eb po heq, se si po ndihesh, se \u00e7far\u00eb po t\u00eb ndodh. Si rrjedhim, dhimbja t\u00eb pak\u00ebsohet, thuajse zvog\u00eblohet fare, sepse ajo leht\u00ebsohet kur ndahet me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ajo q\u00eb ndahet me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, shenjt\u00ebrohet..<\/p>\n<p>Shqip\u00ebroi Stefan Zhupa<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At\u00eb Haralampos Papadopoulos shkruan mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e ndarjes s\u00eb dhimbjes me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ai shpjegon se dhimbja leht\u00ebsohet kur ndahet me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe se ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb vuajtur kan\u00eb nj\u00eb nuhatje t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"P\u00ebrsiatje teologjike","numri":"7 (355)","viti":"2022","muaji":"Korrik","muaji_numer":"7","dita":"","faqet":"[5]","fjale_kyce":"[\"Haralampos Papadopoulos\", \"dhimbje\", \"vetmi\", \"Grigor Theologu\", \"Stefan Zhupa\", \"shpirt\", \"vuajtje\", \"ngush\u00ebllim\"]","permbledhje":"At\u00eb Haralampos Papadopoulos shkruan mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e ndarjes s\u00eb dhimbjes me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. 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