O njeri! Kush ta dha t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh jet\u00eb njer\u00ebzish?<\/p>\n
nga<\/p>\n
Joan SHOLLA<\/p>\n
Para disa koh\u00ebsh n\u00eb lajme, d\u00eb- gjuam se 21 veta u mbyt\u00ebn dhe 7 t\u00eb tjer\u00eb humb\u00ebn n\u00eb detin Jon. K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz p\u00ebrpiqeshin t\u00eb shkonin n\u00eb Itali ku do t\u00eb punonin. Njer\u00ebzit e familjes sapo mor\u00ebn vesh lajmin filluan t\u00eb qanin dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebro- heshin. Shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebgjuan p\u00ebr tragjedin\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb dhembje p\u00ebr k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz. P\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt ky ishte nj\u00eb lajm shum\u00eb i hidhur, i cili tronditi t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl e t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj. Ishin 21 veta ku disa prej tyre sapo kishin filluar ta shijonin jet\u00ebn, disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb sapo ishin fejuar dhe disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb kishin f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Por, a keni d\u00ebgjuar q\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri vdesin mbi 50 veta, t\u00eb cil\u00ebve nuk u jepet, mund\u00ebsia t\u00eb qaj- n\u00eb. Mos ju duket e pakuptueshme kjo pyetje q\u00eb b\u00ebra? Po, po mbi 50 fetuse dhe f\u00ebmij\u00eb vdesin n\u00eb Shqi- p\u00ebri nga n\u00ebnat dhe baballar\u00ebt e tyre. Kjo gj\u00eb ndodh nga mbrojt\u00ebsi dhe ndihm\u00ebsi kryesor i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna e tij. Nj\u00ebri prind ose t\u00eb dy s\u00eb bashku vrasin f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tyre pa iu dridhur dora, pra n\u00ebna aborton. Mendoni nj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb shu- m\u00eb nga k\u00ebta prind\u00ebr u m\u00ebrzit\u00ebn p\u00ebr 21 njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb u mbyt\u00ebn n\u00eb det, por me gjakftoht\u00ebsi t\u00eb habitshme b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebnshkrim t\u00eb plot\u00eb p\u00ebr vrasjen e bij ve t\u00eb tyre. Shum\u00eb vajza, t\u00eb cilat nuk u b\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00ebna, qan\u00eb, sepse disa njer\u00ebz u mbyt\u00ebn nga nj\u00eb vdekje na- tyrore, por pa derdhur nj\u00eb pik\u00eb loti vran\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tyre. Shum\u00eb e shu- m\u00eb njer\u00ebz e kryen k\u00ebt\u00eb krim pa e v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjen. Shum\u00eb e shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb u mbyt\u00ebn pa lindur. Mendoni pak q\u00eb sa e sa f\u00ebmij\u00eb vdesin pa d\u00ebgjuar z\u00ebrin e n\u00ebn\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
Pse ndodh aborti? Nj\u00eb nga ar- syet e abortimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nga n\u00ebnat e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb turpi. Vajzat e reja, t\u00eb cilat kryejn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie para martes\u00ebs mendojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb abortojn\u00eb se sa t\u00eb turp\u00eb- rohen n\u00eb sy t\u00eb bot\u00ebs. Ajo, pasi kryen nj\u00eb m\u00ebkat, p\u00ebrpiqet ta fsheh\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebkat me nj\u00eb vrasje. A to q\u00eb abortojn\u00eb thon\u00eb ose mendojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb lira t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me veten e tyre \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb duan. Atyre u duket m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb vrasin nj\u00eb fetus ose nj\u00eb foshnj\u00eb q\u00eb ka filluar t\u00eb marr\u00eb for<\/p>\n
mat e njeriut sesa t\u00eb turp\u00ebrohen ose t\u00eb tallen me t\u00eb. Ato harrojn\u00eb q\u00eb fetusit q\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb bark i \u00ebsht\u00eb formuar zemra dhe pjes\u00eb t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb trupit. Sa e sh\u00ebmtuar, nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb vret! Zoti ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb pushtetin mbi lindjen e jet\u00ebs. N\u00ebna \u00ebsht\u00eb e destinuar t\u00eb fal\u00eb dashurin\u00eb, por b\u00ebn t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, vret. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb krim i pafytyr\u00eb i nj\u00eb plage t\u00eb thell\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb. Atyre do t\u2019u vin- te keq, do t\u2019u dhimbte n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se do t\u00eb shihnin nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb shtypur nga ndonj\u00eb automjet, por nuk do t\u2019u vinte keq p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tyre, i cili s\u2019ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb automjete.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb arsye tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb shum\u00eb gra kryejn\u00eb abort \u00ebsht\u00eb planifikimi familjar. \u00c7ifti mendon: \u201cP\u00ebrse duhet t\u00eb kemi f\u00ebmij\u00eb, kur ne sapo u martuam, le ta abortojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00eb-<\/p>\n
mij\u00eb. \u201d Mendoni pak n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se n\u00eb- na e Sh\u00ebn Vasilit t\u00eb Madh do t\u00eb ki- shte menduar si nj\u00eb grua, ku baza e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb planifikimi familjar, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kishim Sh\u00ebn Vasil t\u00eb Madh. Shum\u00eb vepra nuk do t\u00eb shkruheshin dhe Kisha nuk do t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb kolos t\u00eb madh.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb arsye tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb shum\u00eb gra abortojn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendja e keqe e familjes. Nj\u00ebher\u00eb bisedova me nj\u00eb \u00e7ift, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kishin 10 vjet q\u00eb ishin martuar. Gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs kuptova se ata kishin abortuar nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Kur i pyeta pse e abortuan u p\u00ebrgjigj\u00ebn se s \u2019kishin mund\u00ebsi ta mbanin at\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebr arsye ekonomike. At\u00eb- her\u00eb i pyeta se p\u00ebrse nuk e vrisni djalin q\u00eb e keni n\u00eb klas\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, sepse edhe tani keni probleme ekonomike? Ata pan\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin me sy. Shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte thon\u00eb se m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb abortojm\u00eb, se sa t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb f\u00eb- mij\u00eb, i cili harxhon m\u00eb shum\u00eb se<\/p>\n
nj\u00eb automjet. Ata thon\u00eb ose me- ndojn\u00eb: \u201cNj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb duhet t\u00eb rritet dhe q\u00eb t\u00eb rritet, do rroba, ushqime t\u00eb ndryshme dhe n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se do t\u00eb s\u00ebmuret, k\u00ebrkon ila\u00e7e e shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjera. Pra, m\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ne – thon\u00eb ata – \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb makin\u00eb q\u00eb nuk k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb kujdes t\u00eb till\u00eb si\u00e7 do nj\u00ebf\u00ebmij\u00eb. \u201d<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb arsye tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb i \u00e7on njer\u00ebzit drejt abortit \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe karriera. Shum\u00eb e shum\u00eb gra mendojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb abortojn\u00eb, se sa t\u00eb largohen nga puna p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vit. Ato mendojn\u00eb: \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb abortoj, se sa t\u00eb m\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb ky rast i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr karrier\u00eb \u201d. Ato mb\u00ebshte- ten n\u00eb th\u00ebnien \u201cKur t\u00eb vjen rasti, shfryt\u00ebzoje at\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
Por \u00e7far\u00eb thot\u00eb shteti p\u00ebr abortin? Aborti n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri u lejua li-<\/p>\n
gj\u00ebrishtn\u00eb vitin 1995. Konsulent\u00ebt e abortit u thon\u00eb n\u00ebnave q\u00eb t\u00eb mos abortojn\u00eb, sepse do t\u00eb ken\u00eb probleme, si: depresioni i t\u00eb ndjerit fajtor, \u00e7rregullim n\u00eb ngr\u00ebnie, mund\u00ebsia e marrjes s\u00eb infeksioneve t\u00eb ndryshme, do t\u2019u nevojitet ndihma psi- qike, si dhe mund\u00ebsia e moslin- djes. Por ka edhe disa raste kur mjek\u00ebt u k\u00ebshillojn\u00eb n\u00ebnave q\u00eb t\u00eb abortojn\u00eb, sepse nuk rrezikohet sh\u00ebndeti i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, por edhe sh\u00eb- ndeti i tyre. Por duhet t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb me kujdes n\u00eb raste kur mjek\u00ebt na k\u00ebshillojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb abortojm\u00eb f\u00ebmi- j\u00ebn ton\u00eb. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se n\u00ebna e Krye- piskopit Anastas do t\u00eb pranonte k\u00ebshill\u00ebn e mjek\u00ebve, kur i than\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb abortonte, sepse jo vet\u00ebm f\u00ebmija rrezikon, por edhe ti, sot nuk do t\u00eb kishim Kryepiskopin Anastas midis nesh. Pra, nuk do t\u00eb kishim bariun e Kish\u00ebs son\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e mje-<\/p>\n
gullt e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij. Mjek\u00ebt e lejojn\u00eb abortin deri n\u00eb muajin e tret\u00eb. M\u00eb pas ata thon\u00eb se nj\u00eb abort pas muajit t\u00eb tret\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb pasoja p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn. Dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri e lejojn\u00eb abortin edhe pas muajit t\u00eb gjasht\u00eb n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se n\u00ebna ka probleme serioze sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore. Ligjet e lejojn\u00eb abortin sepse tho- n\u00eb, q\u00eb krijesa n\u00eb barkun e n\u00ebn\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri.<\/p>\n
\u00c7far\u00eb thot\u00eb Kisha Orthodhokse p\u00ebr abortin? Ajo thot\u00eb q\u00eb ne nuk kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrojm\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, sepse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb nga Per\u00ebndia. Akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb ne s\u2019kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb marrim jet\u00ebn e nj\u00eb embrioni ose t\u00eb nj\u00eb fetusi, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb barkun e n\u00ebn\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ne mendojm\u00eb q\u00eb trupi yn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb banesa e Shpirtit t\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb, ne nuk m\u00ebkatojm\u00eb vet\u00ebm duke vrar\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por m\u00ebka- tojm\u00eb kund\u00ebr Shpirtit t\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb. Sinodi i 6-t\u00eb Ekumenik vendosi p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket abortit: Ajo grua q\u00eb merr ila\u00e7e p\u00ebr t\u00eb vrar\u00eb embrionin osefetusin, pra t\u00eb abortoj\u00eb, p\u00ebrb\u00ebn subjekt q\u00eb ka kryer nj\u00eb vrasje dhe merren masa ndaj saj nj\u00eblloj si me- rren masa ndaj \u00e7do njeriu q\u00eb vret.<\/p>\n
Por shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz mund t\u00eb tho- n\u00eb: Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb embrion ose fetus. A ekziston shpirti n\u00eb krijes\u00ebn, e cila ndodhet n\u00eb barkun e n\u00ebn\u00ebs? Le t\u00eb sjellim nd\u00ebr mend historin\u00eb e takimit t\u00eb Elisabet\u00ebs me Hyjlind\u00ebsen, ku Joani 6 muaj k\u00ebr- ceu n\u00eb barkun e Elisabet\u00ebs. Shpirti ekziston n\u00eb trupin e krijes\u00ebs jo ve- t\u00ebm kur ai \u00ebsht\u00eb 6 muaj. Ne t\u00eb kri- shter\u00ebt besojm\u00eb se Fjala erdhi dhe zuri vend n\u00eb trupin e Hyjlind\u00ebses, q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin e ungjill\u00ebzimit. Pra, ne besojm\u00eb se shpirti vjen tek njeriu q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin e ngjizjes.<\/p>\n
Pra, t\u00eb mos vrasim me duart tona f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ton\u00eb, sepse nuk kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb vrasim veten ton\u00eb, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u00eb marrim jet\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs son\u00eb t\u00eb palindur. T\u00eb kemi kujdes q\u00eb t\u00eb mos mbysim n\u00eb \u2018\u2019Detin Jon\u201d nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, i cili s\u2019ka lindur akoma. Le t\u00eb kemi parasysh porosin\u00eb e gja- sht\u00eb q\u00eb Zoti i dha Moisiut: \u201cMos vrit!\u201d Pra, le t\u2019i japim mund\u00ebsin\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije t\u00eb pafajsh\u00ebm t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij, ashtu si edhe ne e jetoj- m\u00eb ton\u00ebn e deri tani!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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