Shoq\u00ebria ku jetojm\u00eb ka sot nj\u00eb rit\u00ebm shum\u00eb intensiv, me t\u00eb cilin ne jemi p\u00ebrshtatur. Megjith\u00ebse zhvillimi i mjeteve t\u00eb teknologjis\u00eb s\u00eb komunikacionit ka arritur rezultate fantastike, \u00ebsht\u00eb shfaqur tashm\u00eb nj\u00eb tendenc\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxituar. Njer\u00ebzit gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb vrapojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb destinacionet e tyre. Edhe pse mjetet e transportit kan\u00eb shkurtuar ndjesh\u00ebm koh\u00ebn dhe distancat p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk kan\u00eb mundur t\u00eb heqin ankthin p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe ndjesin\u00eb kapit\u00ebse se jemi gjithmon\u00eb me vones\u00eb.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebto lloj reagimesh nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb rast\u00ebsishme. Ato lidhen sa me epok\u00ebn, ashtu edhe me nj\u00eb thirrje shekullore q\u00eb duket se \u00ebsht\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr sa njeriu, nevoja p\u00ebr tu ndjer\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm. Kuptimi shkon edhe m\u00eb gjer\u00eb, kur me t\u00eb q\u00ebnit i nevojsh\u00ebm n\u00ebnkuptohet vendosja e nj\u00eb q\u00ebllimi dhe dh\u00ebnia kuptim e qenies t\u00ebnde, si dhe kthimi i interesave jet\u00ebsore drejt nj\u00eb synimi final.<\/p>\n
Q\u00eb t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb se sa pasoja shkat\u00ebrrimtare ka tek t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb ndjesia e t\u00eb jetuarit mjafton t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendim se nga nj\u00eb studim i b\u00ebr\u00eb, ka dal\u00eb se t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb tendenca p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur drog\u00eb jan\u00eb ata prind\u00ebrit e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve jepen m\u00eb shum\u00eb pas karrier\u00ebs, biznesit apo interesave meskine, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Gjithashtu, nj\u00eb m\u00ebsuese, tregon se nj\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebs i saj, p\u00ebrdorues droge, ka filluar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb normale, menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas frekuentimit t\u00eb grupit t\u00eb teatrit t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs. Mund t\u00eb kuptohet leht\u00eb ila\u00e7i i p\u00ebrdorur gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj terapie. Arsyeja pse t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb prirur drejt bandave kriminale, lidhet edhe me faktin se ata ndihen t\u00eb panevojsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb braktisur. Kjo shfryt\u00ebzohet nga profesionist\u00ebt duke i bindur t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb se kan\u00eb nj\u00eb talent t\u00eb madh n\u00eb vjedhje apo veprime t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj natyre.<\/p>\n
Ndaj, duhet t\u00eb kemi shum\u00eb kujdes, sepse edhe pa dashje, duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb pavler\u00eb, ne i traumatizojm\u00eb ata seriozisht.<\/p>\n
Pik\u00ebrisht jemi ne q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb se ku ndihemi t\u00eb nevojsh\u00ebm dhe se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb na \u00ebsht\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dispozicion dhe q\u00eb quhet jet\u00eb. P\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb: t’i flasim vetes me sinqeritet dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje, n\u00eb “nenet” e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs t\u00eb shkruhen t\u00eb gjitha ato q\u00eb ne mund ose nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb. Por kjo nuk mjafton. Q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehemi t\u00eb nevojsh\u00ebm, duhet q\u00eb ajo q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb t\u00eb sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb dobi p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb komunitetin.<\/p>\n
Shkrimi i Shenjt\u00eb p\u00ebrdor nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur (efkristos) p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur nocionin “i dobish\u00ebm” ose “i nevojsh\u00ebm”. Fjala t\u00eb jep edhe iden\u00eb e nj\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimi t\u00eb mir\u00eb i cili ka gjithmon\u00eb rezultat. N\u00eb letr\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb q\u00eb Pavli i d\u00ebrgon Timoteut nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera i shkruan: “Pra, n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se dikush pastrohet nga k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb en\u00eb nderi, e shenjt\u00ebruar dhe e dobishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb zotin, e p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr \u00e7do vep\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb” (2 Tim. 2:21). M\u00eb posht\u00eb ai do t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb dobishm\u00ebrin\u00eb e nj\u00ebrit prej nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve t\u00eb tij: “Merre Markun dhe sille me vete sepse e kam shum\u00eb t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr sh\u00ebrbes\u00eb” (2 Tim. 4:11).<\/p>\n
Shembull tjet\u00ebr trondit\u00ebs p\u00ebrb\u00ebn deklarata e Pavlit p\u00ebr Filemonin, padronin e skllavit Onesim, i cili nga nj\u00eb skllav ishte kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb person t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm me ndihm\u00ebn e apostullit: “i cili dikur s’kishte fare vler\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, por q\u00eb tani \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i vlefsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ty e p\u00ebr mua” (Fil. 1:11).<\/p>\n
N\u00ebn rrezatimin e Pashk\u00ebs, t\u00eb ndjerit i nevojsh\u00ebm merr nj\u00eb dimension krejt ngaz\u00ebllyes. Jisu Krishti mish\u00ebrohet, kryq\u00ebzohet dhe ngjallet p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata sa kan\u00eb jetuar dhe do t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb, sepse p\u00ebr T\u00eb, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne jemi t\u00eb nevojsh\u00ebm. Vet\u00ebm kjo siguri se edhe n\u00ebse t\u00eb p\u00ebrbuzur nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne jemi t\u00eb nevojsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb dashur tek Ai, i Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb Burimi i jet\u00ebs, i \u00e7do dhurate dhe mir\u00ebsie, do t\u00eb na ndihmoj\u00eb q\u00eb kurr\u00eb t\u00eb mos i dor\u00ebzohemi pesimizmit dhe dor\u00ebheqjes prej t\u00eb jetuarit. Ne duhet t\u00eb marrim plot\u00ebsisht frer\u00ebt e jet\u00ebs n\u00eb duart tona, madje edhe me nj\u00eb far\u00eb “kok\u00ebfort\u00ebsie” pozitive t’i japim asaj ngjyra edhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, edhe kur p\u00ebrreth nesh gjith\u00e7ka mund t\u00eb duket e err\u00ebt dhe e pashpres\u00eb. Ngjarja m\u00eb kulminante e historis\u00eb s\u00eb njer\u00ebzimit, \u00ebsht\u00eb Ngjallja e Krishtit, q\u00eb i dha goditjen de\u00e7izive dhe vdekjeprur\u00ebse forcave t\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00ebs, forca k\u00ebto q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb interesuara t\u00eb na bindin se jemi t\u00eb panevojsh\u00ebm, p\u00ebr t\u00eb na hedhur n\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrim k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb na t\u00ebrheqin drejt rrug\u00ebs s\u00eb humbjes.<\/p>\n
Me ngritjen e Krishtit nga varri, jeta jon\u00eb merr nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr kuptim. N\u00ebse t\u00eb krishter\u00ebt rrezatojn\u00eb optimizmin edhe kur kan\u00eb probleme shqet\u00ebsuese, k\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb sepse e din\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb nevojsh\u00ebm dhe se jeta e tyre dhe ajo \u00e7ka ata b\u00ebjn\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7muara dhe t\u00eb pallogaritshme n\u00eb syt\u00eb e Atij, tek i Cili ata besojn\u00eb, tek Ai i cili d\u00ebrrmoi vargonjt\u00eb e vdekjes dhe i dha bot\u00ebs Jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
C.A.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Editorial reflektues mbi nevoj\u00ebn e njeriut bashk\u00ebkohor p\u00ebr t’u ndjer\u00eb i dobish\u00ebm dhe i nevojsh\u00ebm, ilustruar me citime nga letrat e Apostullit Pav\u00ebl tek Timoteu dhe Filemoni, q\u00eb p\u00ebrfundon me theksimin se n\u00eb syt\u00eb e Krishtit secili \u00ebsht\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"","numri":"7 (126)","viti":"2003","muaji":"Korrik","muaji_numer":"7","dita":"","faqet":"[4]","fjale_kyce":"[\"i nevojsh\u00ebm\", \"efkristos\", \"Apostulli Pav\u00ebl\", \"Timoteu\", \"Filemoni\", \"Onesim\", \"Ngjallja e Krishtit\", \"shoq\u00ebria moderne\", \"rinia\", \"drog\u00eb\"]","permbledhje":"Editorial reflektues mbi nevoj\u00ebn e njeriut bashk\u00ebkohor p\u00ebr t'u ndjer\u00eb i dobish\u00ebm dhe i nevojsh\u00ebm, ilustruar me citime nga letrat e Apostullit Pav\u00ebl tek Timoteu dhe Filemoni, q\u00eb p\u00ebrfundon me theksimin se n\u00eb syt\u00eb e Krishtit secili \u00ebsht\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm.","autori":"C.A.","kategoria":"Editorial \/ Reflektim shpirt\u00ebror","kryeredaktor":"Thoma Dhima"},"ngjallja_kategoria":[11032],"ngjallja_autori":[11033],"ngjallja_viti":[10935],"ngjallja_kryeredaktor":[9473],"class_list":["post-86217","ngjallja_article","type-ngjallja_article","status-publish","hentry","ngjallja_kategoria-editorial-reflektim-shpirteror","ngjallja_autori-c-a","ngjallja_viti-10935","ngjallja_kryeredaktor-thoma-dhima"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n