{"id":85860,"date":"2026-06-01T02:55:05","date_gmt":"2026-06-01T00:55:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/me-pesimizem-apo-me-optimizem\/"},"modified":"2026-06-01T02:55:05","modified_gmt":"2026-06-01T00:55:05","slug":"me-pesimizem-apo-me-optimizem","status":"publish","type":"ngjallja_article","link":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/me-pesimizem-apo-me-optimizem\/","title":{"rendered":"Me pesimiz\u00ebm apo me optimiz\u00ebm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nj\u00eb grua rreth t\u00eb dyzetave, q\u00eb<br \/>\nishte paralizuar nga nj\u00eb aksident<br \/>\nme makin\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ecte p\u00ebr-<br \/>\ns\u00ebri. Kishte v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb kujdesej<br \/>\np\u00ebr dy femij\u00ebt e saj. Nga nj\u00ebra an\u00eb,<br \/>\njeta e saj ishte shkat\u00ebrruar.<br \/>\nMegjithat\u00eb, ajo zgjodhi t\u00eb<br \/>\nshikoj\u00eb an\u00ebn pozitive. \u00c7do dit\u00eb<br \/>\nfal\u00ebnderonte Per\u00ebndin\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn<br \/>\ne saj. Ajo filloi t\u00eb merrej me shum\u00eb<br \/>\naktivitete t\u00eb ndryshme, nj\u00eb nga t\u00eb<br \/>\ncilat ishte t\u2019i shkruante letra t\u00eb<br \/>\nburgosurve, duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u2019i<br \/>\ninkurajonte n\u00eb vetmin\u00eb dhe<br \/>\nd\u00ebshp\u00ebrimin e tyre. Dhe ajo bekoi<br \/>\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb burgosur me letrat e saj.<br \/>\nPasi e b\u00ebri k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb<br \/>\nvjet, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ajo mori nj\u00eb let\u00ebr nga<br \/>\nnj\u00eb i burgosur q\u00eb quhej Xhon, t\u00eb<\/p>\n<p>Me pesimiz\u00ebm apo me optimiz\u00ebm<br \/>\ncilit nuk i p\u00eblqenin k\u00ebshillat e saj<br \/>\nsepse ai e akuzonte se ajo nuk e<br \/>\nkuptonte se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thoshte t\u00eb<br \/>\njetoje brenda nj\u00eb qelie burgu dhe<br \/>\nt\u00eb mos ishte i lir\u00eb.<br \/>\nK\u00ebsaj akuze ajo iu p\u00ebrgjigj<br \/>\nduke shkruar: \u201cXhon, ti e ke gabim<br \/>\nkur m\u00eb akuzon se nuk di se \u00e7far\u00eb<br \/>\ndo t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mos kesh liri. P\u00ebrpara<br \/>\nnj\u00ebzet vjet\u00ebsh, n\u00eb kulm t\u00eb jet\u00ebs,<br \/>\nlirin\u00eb ma mori nj\u00eb aksident. P\u00ebr<br \/>\nnj\u00ebzet vjet, kam qen\u00eb e burgosur<br \/>\nn\u00eb trupin tim, duke mos qen\u00eb n\u00eb<br \/>\ngjendje t\u00eb l\u00ebviz. Dhe megjithat\u00eb,<br \/>\npara shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh kuptova se<br \/>\nisha e lir\u00eb. Megjith\u00ebse isha e<br \/>\nburgosur n\u00eb trupin tim, isha ende<br \/>\ne lir\u00eb t\u00eb zgjidhja se si do t\u2019i b\u00ebja<br \/>\nball\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Mund t\u00eb zgjidhja ta<\/p>\n<p>p\u00ebrballoja me hidh\u00ebrim ose<br \/>\nmir\u00ebnjohje. Mund t\u00eb zgjidhja t\u00eb<br \/>\nmallkoja paraliz\u00ebn time ose t\u00eb<br \/>\nfal\u00ebnderoja Per\u00ebndin\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn<br \/>\ntime. Po isha ende e lir\u00eb, megji-<br \/>\nth\u00ebse trupim ishte burg\u201d.<br \/>\nAjo vazhdoi t\u00eb shkruante: \u201cTi<br \/>\nXhon, megjith\u00ebse je n\u00eb burg, ende<br \/>\nke lirin\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh. A do t\u00eb<br \/>\nzgjedh\u00ebsh t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh hekurat e<br \/>\nqelis\u00eb apo t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh p\u00ebrtej tyre?<br \/>\nAdo mallkosh burgimin t\u00ebnd apo<br \/>\ndo t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderosh Per\u00ebndin\u00eb p\u00ebr<br \/>\njet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, me gjith\u00eb betejat dhe<br \/>\nv\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb?\u201d<br \/>\nEdhe ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi lirin\u00eb t\u00eb<br \/>\nzgjedhim se si do ta p\u00ebrballojm\u00eb<br \/>\nt\u00eb ardhmen ton\u00eb. Jeta mund t\u00eb<br \/>\nofroj\u00eb shum\u00eb pengesa, shum\u00eb<\/p>\n<p>zhg\u00ebnjime, shum\u00eb beteja. A  do t\u00eb<br \/>\nshikojm\u00eb pozitiven apo negativen?<br \/>\nA do t\u00eb jemi mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs p\u00ebr at\u00eb<br \/>\nq\u00eb na ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb Per\u00ebndia apo do t\u00eb<br \/>\ninatosemi dhe zhg\u00ebnjehemi p\u00ebr ato<br \/>\nq\u00eb nuk kemi marr\u00eb?<br \/>\nDuhet t\u00eb zgjedhim, por, nuk<br \/>\nduhet t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb, se nga kjo<br \/>\nzgjedhje do t\u00eb vij\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb me<br \/>\ng\u00ebzime ose hidh\u00ebrime, nj\u00eb jet\u00eb<br \/>\nsuksesi ose zhg\u00ebnjimesh, nj\u00eb jet\u00eb<br \/>\nshprese ose d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Material nga Korrik 2002.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"","numri":"7 (116)","viti":"2002","muaji":"Korrik","muaji_numer":"7","dita":"","faqet":"[10]","fjale_kyce":"[\"pesimiz\u00ebm\", \"optimiz\u00ebm\"]","permbledhje":"Material nga Korrik 2002.","autori":"","kategoria":"Artikull","kryeredaktor":"Thoma Dhima"},"ngjallja_kategoria":[9653],"ngjallja_autori":[],"ngjallja_viti":[10877],"ngjallja_kryeredaktor":[9473],"class_list":["post-85860","ngjallja_article","type-ngjallja_article","status-publish","hentry","ngjallja_kategoria-artikull","ngjallja_viti-10877","ngjallja_kryeredaktor-thoma-dhima"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - 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