{"id":84799,"date":"2026-06-01T02:36:13","date_gmt":"2026-06-01T00:36:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/une-femija-i-palindur\/"},"modified":"2026-06-01T02:36:13","modified_gmt":"2026-06-01T00:36:13","slug":"une-femija-i-palindur","status":"publish","type":"ngjallja_article","link":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/une-femija-i-palindur\/","title":{"rendered":"Un\u00eb, f\u00ebmija i palindur"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un\u00eb, f\u00ebmija i palindur<br \/>\nJava e 1-r\u00eb<br \/>\nTungjatjeta! Jam nj\u00eb<br \/>\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb nisjen e jet\u00ebs sime!<br \/>\n23 kromozonet e n\u00ebn\u00ebs sime<br \/>\ndhe 23 kromozonet e tim eti u<br \/>\nlidh\u00ebn, duke m\u00eb krijuar mua!<br \/>\n6 or\u00eb m\u00eb pas fillova t\u00eb<br \/>\nshumohesha dhe u vendosa<br \/>\nn\u00eb mit\u00ebr. K\u00ebtu do t\u00eb b\u00ebj folen\u00eb<br \/>\nderisa t\u00eb lind.<br \/>\nJava 11-12-t\u00eb<br \/>\n(tre muaj = 90 dit\u00eb)<br \/>\nJam 8 cm dhe peshoj 25 gr.<br \/>\nBrenda nj\u00eb muaj gjat\u00ebsia u<br \/>\ntrefishua dhe pesha ime u te-<br \/>\nt\u00ebfishua. Ngjashm\u00ebria q\u00eb kam<br \/>\nme prind\u00ebrit e mi n\u00eb kara-<br \/>\nkteristika dhe sjellje \u00ebsht\u00eb,<br \/>\ntashm\u00eb e dukshme.<br \/>\nM\u00eb mbijn\u00eb flok\u00ebt dhe<br \/>\nthonjt\u00eb.<br \/>\nZgjohem kur zgjohet n\u00ebna<br \/>\nime, fie kur ajo fie, jam i qet\u00eb<br \/>\nkur ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e qet\u00eb. T\u00eb gjitha<br \/>\nndryshimet shpirt\u00ebrore dhe<br \/>\ntrunore dhe \u00e7do substanc\u00eb q\u00eb<br \/>\np\u00ebrdor, ndikojn\u00eb dhe tek mua.<br \/>\nKur n\u00ebna ime shqet\u00ebsohet p\u00ebr<br \/>\nmua, un\u00eb e ndjej. E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb<br \/>\nndodh kur ajo pushtohet nga<br \/>\nndjenja e ankthit, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e<br \/>\nzakonshme dhe normale n\u00eb 2<br \/>\nmuajt e par\u00eb t\u00eb shtatzanis\u00eb,<br \/>\ndhe krijohet nga frika p\u00ebr t\u00eb<br \/>\nardhmen, p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u201cren\u00eb\u201d dhe t\u00eb<br \/>\npanjohur\u00ebn. Kuptoj kur vuan<br \/>\nndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nga lemza, dhi-<br \/>\nmbje koke, t\u00eb vjella, marrje<br \/>\nmendsh.<br \/>\nPor, t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto do t\u00eb<br \/>\nkalojn\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa shtatzania<br \/>\np\u00ebrparon. Dhe kur n\u00ebna ime<br \/>\ndo t\u00eb m\u00eb mbaj\u00eb n\u00eb duart e saj,<br \/>\ndo t\u2019i duken t\u00eb par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme<br \/>\nPo sikur n\u00ebna ime nuk<br \/>\ndo t\u00eb m\u00eb donte?<br \/>\nN\u00eb se prind\u00ebrit i thonin se<br \/>\n\u00ebsht\u00eb e vog\u00ebl p\u00ebr martes\u00eb<br \/>\nose nuk mund t\u00eb ushqej\u00eb<br \/>\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb?<br \/>\nN\u00eb e vler\u00ebson m\u00eb shum\u00eb<br \/>\nkarrier\u00ebn e saj, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se<br \/>\nmua?<br \/>\nOse n\u00eb se mendon \u201c\u00e7do t\u00eb<br \/>\nthot\u00eb bota\u201d, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb e<br \/>\npamartuar?<br \/>\nN\u00eb se mjeku i thot\u00eb se<br \/>\nmund t\u00eb jem i s\u00ebmur\u00eb nga<br \/>\nsindroma Daun.<br \/>\nN\u00eb se mendon bashk\u00eb me<br \/>\nmjekun e saj m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u<br \/>\n\u00e7liruar nga un\u00eb?<br \/>\nN\u00eb se ndodh di\u00e7ka nga<br \/>\nk\u00ebto, \u00e7\u2019m\u00eb pret vall\u00eb?<br \/>\nMos m\u00eb thithin me nj\u00eb tub,<br \/>\nsi fshesa me korrent plehrat?<br \/>\n(Abort me thithje? Metoda<br \/>\nkarman).<\/p>\n<p>Apo, mos ndoshta do t\u00eb<br \/>\nb\u00ebjn\u00eb tek n\u00ebna ime nj\u00eb gjil-<br \/>\np\u00ebr\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar<br \/>\n\u201cautomatikisht\u201d?<br \/>\nMos ndoshta do t\u00eb m\u00eb<br \/>\ncoptojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb, brenda<br \/>\nbarkut t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs time, me nj\u00eb<br \/>\nthik\u00eb t\u00eb mpreht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkulur?<br \/>\nMos ndoshta \u201cmjeku\u201d do t\u00eb<br \/>\nhap\u00eb barkun e n\u00ebn\u00ebs time, m\u00eb<br \/>\nnxjerr dhe m\u00eb vret menj\u00ebher\u00eb<br \/>\nose do t\u00eb m\u00eb hedh\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb ko-<br \/>\nv\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb vdes? (Abort me<br \/>\nnd\u00ebrhyrje kirugjirkale).<br \/>\n\u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet at\u00ebher\u00eb<br \/>\ntrupi im, q\u00eb tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb 2-3<br \/>\nkile?<br \/>\nMos ndoshta mjeku me nj\u00eb<br \/>\nshiring\u00eb do t\u00eb hedh\u00eb uj\u00eb l\u00ebng,<br \/>\nq\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb djeg\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb?<br \/>\n(Abort me helmim).<br \/>\nAt\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb kem dhimbje<br \/>\nt\u00eb frikshme p\u00ebr or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra,<br \/>\nderisa t\u00eb jap shpirt!<br \/>\nAt\u00eb q\u00eb mjek\u00ebt e quajn\u00eb<br \/>\n\u201cnd\u00ebrprerje shtatzanie\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb<br \/>\nvrasja ime!<br \/>\nVdekja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb<br \/>\nmartirike: luftoj p\u00ebr 2-3 or\u00eb q\u00eb<br \/>\nt\u00eb q\u00ebndroj n\u00eb jet\u00eb, zemra ime<br \/>\nlufton me kryene\u00e7\u00ebsi.<br \/>\nN\u00ebna ime rrezikon, ashtu<br \/>\nsi edhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi t\u00eb<br \/>\nardhsh\u00ebm, nga vdekja ime e<br \/>\npadrejt\u00eb!<br \/>\nNdoshta, disa mjek\u00eb pa<br \/>\nfrik\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegje i thon\u00eb se<br \/>\naborti \u00ebsht\u00eb i thjesht\u00eb dhe i<br \/>\nleht\u00eb, si nj\u00eb heqje dh\u00ebmbi.<br \/>\nMendojn\u00eb parat\u00eb e tyre, jo<br \/>\nmua dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn time!!!<br \/>\nE  VERTETAESHTE  SE:<br \/>\n1. Aborti \u00ebsht\u00eb 3 her\u00eb m\u00eb i<br \/>\nrreziksh\u00ebm se shtatzania.<br \/>\n2. N\u00eb tre grat\u00eb e mitura q\u00eb<br \/>\nb\u00ebjn\u00eb abort, nj\u00ebra kalon<br \/>\nkomplikacione q\u00eb mund ta<br \/>\nb\u00ebjn\u00eb shterp\u00eb.<br \/>\n3. Nd\u00ebrmjet n\u00ebnave q\u00eb<br \/>\nkan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb abort:<\/p>\n<p>a) 1\/3 vuan nga d\u00ebshtimet<br \/>\nb) 49 % paraqet lindje t\u00eb<br \/>\nparakohshme.<br \/>\nc) 40 % lind f\u00ebmij\u00eb me<br \/>\nprobleme sh\u00ebndeti.<br \/>\n4. M\u00eb shum\u00eb se 3\/4 e<br \/>\nn\u00ebnave q\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb abort<br \/>\nparaqesin m\u00eb pas probleme t\u00eb<br \/>\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme psikologjike, si<br \/>\ndhe probleme t\u00eb tjera (mela-<br \/>\nnkoli, depresion, vrasje nd\u00ebr-<br \/>\ngjegjeje, makthe, prirje agre-<br \/>\nsive etj.), q\u00eb arrijn\u00eb deri n\u00eb<br \/>\nprishjen e unitetit bashk\u00ebsho-<br \/>\nrtor, divorcin dhe ndikojn\u00eb, si\u00e7<br \/>\n\u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme edhe mbi<br \/>\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb tjer\u00eb.<br \/>\nKUSHMUND TA<br \/>\nNDIHMOJE NENEN  TIME?<br \/>\nPjes\u00ebt e m\u00ebsip\u00ebrme jan\u00eb<br \/>\nshk\u00ebputur nga broshura<br \/>\n\u201cF\u00ebmija q\u00eb lind\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Material nga Shtator 1999.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"","numri":"9 (84)","viti":"1999","muaji":"Shtator","muaji_numer":"9","dita":"","faqet":"[8]","fjale_kyce":"[\"f\u00ebmija\", \"palindur\"]","permbledhje":"Material nga Shtator 1999.","autori":"","kategoria":"Artikull","kryeredaktor":"Thoma Dhima"},"ngjallja_kategoria":[9653],"ngjallja_autori":[],"ngjallja_viti":[10583],"ngjallja_kryeredaktor":[9473],"class_list":["post-84799","ngjallja_article","type-ngjallja_article","status-publish","hentry","ngjallja_kategoria-artikull","ngjallja_viti-10583","ngjallja_kryeredaktor-thoma-dhima"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - 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