Lakmia \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebkat mjaft serioz. Njeriu lakmitar
\np\u00ebrkushtohet me gjith\u00eb shpirtin dhe mendjen tek
\nparat\u00eb, tek grumbullimi i pasuris\u00eb, duke mbetur
\nzem\u00ebrgur dhe i paprekur nga nevojat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.
\nFjala e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb e quan lakmin\u00eb \u201crr\u00ebnj\u00ebn e gjith\u00eb
\nt\u00eb k\u00ebqijave\u201d (Letra e I Timotheut 6:10). P\u00ebr ata q\u00eb
\nk\u00ebrkojn\u00eb pasurin\u00eb, apostull Pavli shknian, se: \u201cBien
\nn\u00eb tundim, n\u00eb lak dhe n\u00eb shum\u00eb pasione t\u00eb
\npaarsyeshme dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme, q\u00eb i plandosin
\nnjer\u00ebzit n\u00eb rr\u00ebnim dhe shkat\u00ebrrim\u201d (Letra I
\nTimotheut 6:9). Edhe apostull Petri i quan
\nlakmitar\u00ebt \u201cBij mallkimi\u201d (Letra II Ap. Petn 2:14).
\nPo, \u00e7\u2019duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb mos fitojn\u00eb
\nvesin e lakmis\u00eb e t\u00eb kopracis\u00eb?
\nShum\u00eb her\u00eb vet\u00eb prind\u00ebrit \u201cnga dija ose ngapadija\u201d,
\nmbjellin n\u00eb shpirtin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve pasionin e lakmis\u00eb.
\nN\u00eb shum\u00eb familje f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb bised\u00eb
\ntjet\u00ebr, ve\u00e7se paga, t\u00eb ardhura, fitime. \u201cT\u00eb gjejn\u00eb
\nnj\u00eb pozit\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb me pag\u00eb t\u00eb madhe \u201d. Kjo futet si
\nproblemi kryesor i jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. Pasuria konsi-
\nderohet si lumturia m\u00eb e madhe, nd\u00ebrsa varferia
\nkonsiderohet si fatkeq\u00ebsia m\u00eb e madhe.
\nN\u00eb k\u00ebto biseda p\u00ebrmenden shembuj, q\u00eb edhe
\nf\u00ebinij\u00ebt i shohin p\u00ebrdit\u00eb para tyre. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e
\ntyre f\u00ebminore v\u00ebrejn\u00eb se njer\u00ebzit i respektojn\u00eb dhe
\ni nderojn\u00eb sipas gjendjes s\u00eb tyre ekonomike.
\nPas gjith\u00eb k\u00ebtyre, \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb
\nm\u00ebsohet me mendimin, se njer\u00ebzit ekzistojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm
\nq\u00eb t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb t\u00eb holla dhe se n\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb hollat jan\u00eb
\nmbi t\u00eb gjitha. Madje, ka raste q\u00eb f\u00ebnuj\u00ebt refuzojn\u00eb
\nt\u00eb punojn\u00eb falas edhe p\u00ebr Kish\u00ebn, po duan pages\u00eb.
\nDuket se prind\u00ebrit e k\u00ebtyre femij\u00ebve fatkeq\u00eb i
\nsholiin si mj et fitimi. Po \u00e7 \u2019 do b\u00ebhen ata kur t\u00eb rriten?
\nDo b\u00ebjn\u00eb vet\u00ebm ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb do t\u2019ju sigurojn\u00eb fitime.
\nN\u00eb Kish\u00ebn e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb nuk do t\u2019i shoh\u00eb askush,
\nsepse askush nuk i paguan ata q\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb Kish\u00eb.
\nK\u00ebshtu, me nd\u00ebrgjegje ose jo, prind\u00ebrit b\u00ebhen
\nmb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs t\u00eb prishjes morale dhe e largimit t\u00eb
\nfeinij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre nga Per\u00ebndia.
\nLakmia shfaqet tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb forma t\u00eb ndryshme.
\nK\u00ebshtu, tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vegj\u00ebl, zakonisht, manife\u00ad
\nstohet me p\u00ebrpjekjen q\u00eb t\u00eb rr\u00ebmbejn\u00eb \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb mundin
\ne ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb tyren, nd\u00ebrsa nga ato q\u00eb marrin, nuk
\nduan t\u2019u japin asgj\u00eb v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve ose ndonj\u00eb tjetri.
\nQ\u00eb f i mani femij\u00ebt nga ky pasion serioz, duhet t\u2019i
\nnxisni p\u00ebr bujari. Kjo do realizohet kurt\u2019i m\u00ebsoni
\nt\u00eb ndajn\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt at\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb, t\u00eb p\u00ebrd\u00ebllejn\u00eb t\u00eb
\nvarfrit, t\u2019u sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00ebve etj.
\nT \u2019u m\u00ebsoni femij\u00ebve tuaj q\u00eb t\u00eb dhurqjn\u00eb jo thjesht
\nnga keqardhja ose dhimbsuria, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mbjell\u00eb
\ntek \u00e7do njeri i ekuilibruar, por me bindjen, se ajo
\nq\u00eb jepni tek i varfri \u00ebsht\u00eb sikur e men vet\u00eb Krishti.
\nT \u2019i m\u00ebsoni me fjal\u00ebt e Atij: \u201cKa m\u00eb shum\u00eb lumturi
\nt\u00eb jap\u00ebsh, sesa t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh\u201d (Vepra e Apostujve
\n20:35).
\nNj\u00eb form\u00eb tjet\u00ebr lakmie, q\u00eb manifestohet tek
\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt, \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk k\u00ebnaqen me asgj\u00eb, prandaj n\u00eb
\nse doni q\u00eb t\u2019i shmangni nga lakmia, m\u00ebsojini q\u00eb t\u00eb
\nk\u00ebnaqen me ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur
\nme ushqimin, nnbat e lodrat dhe sa gj\u00ebra u jepni.
\nN\u00eb mair\u00ebdh\u00ebniet tuaja me ta zbatoni k\u00ebt\u00eb rregull:
\n\u201cKush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me at\u00eb q\u00eb i japin, nuk
\nmen – asgj\u00eb\u201d. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur f\u00ebmija me
\nushqimin q\u00eb i jepni, me rrobat ose lodrat q\u00eb i blini?
\nla merrni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. Kjo do sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb pozitivisht p\u00ebr
\nta, n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb prishur ende.
\nNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrall\u00eb dukuria, q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb \u201cfa-
\nmiljarizohen\u201d me sende t\u00eb huaja. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast duhet
\nt\u00eb jeni, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht t\u00eb v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm.
\nMos u lejoni femij\u00ebve tuaj t\u2019i nd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e
\ntyre, e p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, t\u2019i shesin, sepse k\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb e
\nleht\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsohen me mashtrim. M\u00ebsojini sa m\u00eb
\nshpejt t\u00eb mundni, se ato q\u00eb fitohen me mashtrim
\nnuk sjellin prokopi. M\u00ebsojini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj q\u00eb t\u00eb
\nvegj\u00ebl t\u00eb ve\u00e7ojn\u00eb e \u201cimja\u201d nga \u201ce jotja\u201d, prandaj
\nmos i lejoni t\u00eb manin e t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin pa leje gj\u00ebrat e
\nv\u00ebllez\u00ebrve. K\u00ebshtu m\u00ebsohen me ndjenj\u00ebn e
\nrespektit p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.
\nN\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, k\u00ebshillojini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb
\nnj\u00ebri-tjetrin n\u00eb raste nevoje, q\u00eb dhe fu japin gj\u00ebrat
\ne tyre v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve a miqve t\u00eb tyre.
\nS\u00eb Hindi, n\u00eb se doni t\u00eb niani f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj nga lakmia,
\nn\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo forme q\u00eb t\u00eb shfaqet ajo, n\u00eb se nuk doni
\nt\u00eb b\u00ebhen sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor\u00eb t\u00eb paras\u00eb, t\u2019u tregoni me fjal\u00ebn
\ndhe vepr\u00ebn tuaj vler\u00ebn reale t\u00eb t\u00eb mirave tok\u00ebsore.
\nShpjegojuni se t\u00eb hollat dhe pasuria nukjan\u00eb e mira
\nm\u00eb e lart\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00eb. E mira m\u00eb e lart\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb viityti
\ndhe drejt\u00ebsia, sepse ato kan\u00eb vler\u00eb p\u00ebr Per\u00ebndin\u00eb.
\nJepuni t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se njeriu nuk ka asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrfitim,
\nn\u00eb se fiton gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn dhe humb shpirtin. Dhe,
\nmos neglizhoni p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb lakmis\u00eb edhe jet\u00ebn
\ntuaj shpirt\u00ebrore, si p.sh. lutjen, shkuaijen n\u00eb Idsh\u00eb.
\nP\u00ebrkthcu: NAFSIKA MELO
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