Themelet e edukimit<\/p>\n
Sipas fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb Solomonit t\u00eb urt\u00eb: “Frika e Zotit \u00ebsht\u00eb fillimi i urt\u00ebsis\u00eb” (Proverba 1:7). Duke pasur si baz\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, virtyti i par\u00eb q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb kultivojn\u00eb n\u00eb shpirtrat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre dhe madje, sa t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur m\u00eb shpejt, \u00ebsht\u00eb frika e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, d.m.th. besimi dhe shpres\u00ebtaria tek Ai. Sepse, n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija edukohet q\u00eb i vog\u00ebl me shpres\u00ebtari dhe p\u00ebrqafon jet\u00ebn e Kish\u00ebs, vet\u00ebm at\u00ebhere mund t\u00eb shpresojm\u00eb se m\u00eb von\u00eb, kur ngasjet do ta rrethojn\u00eb nga t\u00eb gjitha an\u00ebt e pasionet do ta ngacmojn\u00eb, ai do t\u00eb mbetet i pal\u00ebkundur dhe do t\u00eb ruaj\u00eb parimet q\u00eb m\u00ebsoi nga n\u00ebna.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i till\u00eb, i sunduar nga pasionet ose i t\u00ebrhequr nga shembulli i keq, merr rrug\u00ebn e gabuar, n\u00eb rastet m\u00eb t\u00eb shumta pendohet m\u00eb leht\u00eb dhe kthehet m\u00eb shpejt n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e mir\u00eb, sesa ai q\u00eb nuk njohu p\u00ebrkujdesje t\u00eb krishter\u00eb n\u00eb vitet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb. Ky kujtim i \u00ebmb\u00ebl i viteve t\u00eb padjall\u00ebzuara femmore zgjoi shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz nga gjumi letargjik i m\u00ebkatit dhe i solli p\u00ebrs\u00ebri pran\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb. Ndaj, p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb shpres\u00ebtare. Ajo, q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e njom\u00eb do t’i m\u00ebsoj\u00eb besimin dhe shpres\u00ebtarin\u00eb. Nga n\u00ebna, e jo nga dadua, apo m\u00ebsuesja, – f\u00ebmija duhet t\u00eb njoh\u00eb Per\u00ebndin\u00eb. Tek ikonat e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb lutjen e par\u00eb, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna ajo q\u00eb do ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u00eb lutet. K\u00ebshtu b\u00ebhej kurdoher\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha familjet e v\u00ebrteta t\u00eb krishtera.<\/p>\n
“Sapo f\u00ebmija t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb, – shkruan Joan Gojarti, – prind\u00ebrit i m\u00ebsojn\u00eb Simbolin e besimit, si t\u00eb lutet e t\u00eb psali, si edhe rregullin e ikonave t\u00eb shenjta”. Po ky hierark, i jep edhe k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb n\u00ebnave: “T’i m\u00ebsoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb kryqin! P\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb s’munden vet\u00eb ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb kryqin, t’ua b\u00ebni ju, me dor\u00ebn tuaj”!<\/p>\n
Po, si mund t\u00eb frym\u00ebzojm\u00eb tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetimin e krishter\u00eb? Kjo do realizohet n\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn foshnjore, t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetat baz\u00eb t\u00eb besimit ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Mos u frik\u00ebsoni! Esht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb dhe \u00e7do n\u00ebn\u00eb mund ta b\u00ebj\u00eb. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshta zemre le t’u flas\u00eb sa m\u00eb shpesh f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb saj p\u00ebr Atin e dhimbsur e t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Pak m\u00eb von\u00eb, n\u00eb intervale, le t’u flas\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb parajs\u00eb: se atje jetonin t\u00eb lumtur, sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb i bindeshin Per\u00ebndis\u00eb dhe se n\u00eb qiell do t\u00eb jet\u00eb pakrahasuesh\u00ebm m\u00eb mir\u00eb, p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb do t’i binden Atij dhe prind\u00ebrve. Le t’u tregoj\u00eb, gjithashtu, se Adami e Eva m\u00ebkatuan dhe p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb m\u00ebkatit edhe ata u b\u00ebn\u00eb fatkeq\u00eb, edhe gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit i b\u00ebn\u00eb fatkeq\u00eb. Prandaj, u desh t\u00eb vinte n\u00eb tok\u00eb Shp\u00ebtimtari, q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb mundnin t\u00eb hynin p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb qiell.<\/p>\n
Do t’u flas\u00eb p\u00ebr Lindjen e Zotit ton\u00eb, p\u00ebr barinjt\u00eb e p\u00ebrulur e tre mag\u00ebt q\u00eb iu fal\u00ebn, p\u00ebr mbretin e keq Irod, q\u00eb therri foshnjat e pafajshme, p\u00ebr Paraqitjen n\u00eb Tempull t\u00eb Iisuit 12-vje\u00e7ar dhe jet\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb lodhshme n\u00eb Nazaret. Do t’u flas\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr vuajtjet dhe vdekjen e Tij mbi Kryq, duke shpjeguar se Zoti i duroi t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto, meq\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ishin kaq t\u00eb k\u00ebqinj. \u00c7do f\u00ebmij\u00eb do kuptoj\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb, se nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i keq.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebna le t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb dhe t’u flas\u00eb p\u00ebr Ngjalljen dhe Ngjitjen e Zotit n\u00eb qiell. Dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt do t’i k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb q\u00eb t’u tregoj\u00eb edhe t\u00eb tjera, edhe t\u00eb tjera…<\/p>\n
At\u00ebher\u00eb, ajo do ket\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t’u flas\u00eb p\u00ebr N\u00ebn\u00ebn e Zotit, p\u00ebr Hyrjen e saj n\u00eb Tempull n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn tre vje\u00e7, p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj atje… Do t’u thot\u00eb se sa ajo i do njer\u00ebzit dhe realizon lutjen e atyre, q\u00eb i drejtohen Asaj. Do t’u flas\u00eb p\u00ebr engj\u00ebjt e shenjt\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr engj\u00ebllin mbrojt\u00ebs t\u00eb secilit, q\u00eb i ruan kaq shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebna do t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzoj\u00eb t\u00eb kremtet e ndryshme, q\u00eb t’i k\u00ebshilloj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetat e m\u00ebdha t\u00eb besimit ton\u00eb. Do t\u00eb marr\u00eb shkak nga ikonat e shenjta, q\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb krishter\u00eb dhe nga kryqi q\u00eb mban vet\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, q\u00eb t’u rr\u00ebfej\u00eb se \u00e7’tregojn\u00eb ato.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebna e mir\u00eb, duke sjell\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn \u00e7do dit\u00eb para ikonostasit, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb vet\u00eb kryqin dhe, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb me do\u00e7k\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, do ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb se si do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00eb kryqin e si t\u00eb lutet dhe, sidomos, nuk duhet t\u00eb neglizhoj\u00eb kurr\u00eb t\u00eb sjell\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e saj n\u00eb Kish\u00eb \u00e7do t\u00eb diel\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb kungoj\u00eb Misteret e Shenjta.<\/p>\n
Dhe, sa e leht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb me pem\u00ebn e Krishtlindjeve t\u00eb lidhet historia e Lindjes s\u00eb Krishtit. Sa e leht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb Pashk\u00eb, ku mund t’u shpjegojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, se Shp\u00ebtimtari vuajti dhe vdiq p\u00ebr m\u00ebkatet e njer\u00ebzve. F\u00ebmija do kuptoj\u00eb se p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye nuk duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebkatoj\u00eb. Do t’i themi se Per\u00ebndia e ngjalli At\u00eb dhe, q\u00eb edhe ne do vdesim, por, po t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb mir\u00eb, Shp\u00ebtimtari do na ngjalli si Llazarin e shenjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Sa e leht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb njeriu t\u00eb frym\u00ebzoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn me dashurin\u00eb dhe shpres\u00ebtarin\u00eb tek Sh\u00ebrbesat Hyjnore t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs. Mjafton vet\u00ebm t’i japim t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se n\u00eb Kish\u00eb gjendet m\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm “i kudondodhuri” Zot, Per\u00ebndia q\u00eb i do shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe q\u00eb i fton edhe ata pran\u00eb Tij. Ndaj, aty duhet t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojm\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb me kujdes kryqin dhe t\u00eb lutemi me shpres\u00ebtari.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosur dhe zhvilluar p\u00ebrjetimin orthodhoks t\u00eb krishter\u00eb n\u00eb shpirtrat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb t\u00eb detyruar t’i m\u00ebsojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl, q\u00eb t\u00eb komunikojn\u00eb me Per\u00ebndin\u00eb dhe q\u00eb t\u00eb luten. Sado i vog\u00ebl q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb f\u00ebmija, ai mund t\u00eb lutet. Derisa k\u00ebrkon nga prind\u00ebrit at\u00eb q\u00eb do, pse nuk mund ta k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb nga Ati qiellor?<\/p>\n
M\u00ebsojini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb luten! N\u00ebse filloni kur jan\u00eb ende t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl, at\u00ebhere lutja do t’u b\u00ebhet zakon dhe nevoj\u00eb. T\u00eb b\u00ebni sistematikisht, s\u00eb bashku me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj, lutje m\u00ebngjesi dhe mbr\u00ebmjeje, si edhe para dhe pas ngr\u00ebnies. T\u00eb mos afrohen n\u00eb tryez\u00eb, si kafsh\u00ebt n\u00eb tagji, por t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb se kush do q\u00eb t\u00eb shijoj\u00eb dhuratat e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, duhet t’i k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ato, por dhe t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj\u00eb kur i merr. Lutjet “Ati yn\u00eb”, “Virgj\u00ebresh\u00eb hirplot\u00eb” dhe t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb shkurtra, duhet t’i dij\u00eb \u00e7do f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Po, prind\u00ebr! N\u00ebse zemra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrmbytur nga besimi dhe dashuria tek Per\u00ebndia, do t\u00eb gjeni mij\u00ebra m\u00ebnyra t’i transmetoni ato tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj. Sa padrejt\u00ebsi do t’u b\u00ebjm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb, n\u00ebse do t’u privojm\u00eb thesarin e besimit, thesarin e Orthodhoksis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrktheu: Nafsika Melo<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Artikull mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e edukimit fetar t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb kultivojn\u00eb shpres\u00ebtarin\u00eb, lutjen dhe njohjen e besimit p\u00ebrmes shembullit personal dhe pjes\u00ebmarrjes n\u00eb Kish\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"","numri":"11 (62)","viti":"1997","muaji":"Nentor","muaji_numer":"11","dita":"","faqet":"[2]","fjale_kyce":"[\"edukim\", \"frik\u00eb e Zotit\", \"f\u00ebmij\u00eb\", \"prind\u00ebr\", \"lutje\", \"kryqi\", \"shpres\u00ebtari\", \"Joan Gojarti\", \"n\u00ebn\u00eb\", \"Krishtlindje\"]","permbledhje":"Artikull mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e edukimit fetar t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb kultivojn\u00eb shpres\u00ebtarin\u00eb, lutjen dhe njohjen e besimit p\u00ebrmes shembullit personal dhe pjes\u00ebmarrjes n\u00eb Kish\u00eb.","autori":"P\u00ebrktheu: Nafsika Melo","kategoria":"Edukim i krishter\u00eb","kryeredaktor":"Thoma Dhima"},"ngjallja_kategoria":[10411],"ngjallja_autori":[10412],"ngjallja_viti":[10219],"ngjallja_kryeredaktor":[9473],"class_list":["post-84237","ngjallja_article","type-ngjallja_article","status-publish","hentry","ngjallja_kategoria-edukim-i-krishtere","ngjallja_autori-perktheu-nafsika-melo","ngjallja_viti-10219","ngjallja_kryeredaktor-thoma-dhima"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n