{"id":83633,"date":"2026-06-01T02:15:16","date_gmt":"2026-06-01T00:15:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/armiqesine-ta-shkruani-ne-uje\/"},"modified":"2026-06-01T02:15:16","modified_gmt":"2026-06-01T00:15:16","slug":"armiqesine-ta-shkruani-ne-uje","status":"publish","type":"ngjallja_article","link":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2026\/ngjallja\/armiqesine-ta-shkruani-ne-uje\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cArmiq\u00ebsin\u00eb ta shkruani n\u00eb uj\u00eb\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nga fjal\u00ebt e urta t\u00eb Et\u00ebrve t\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb:<br \/>\n\u201cArmiq\u00ebsin\u00eb ta shkruani n\u00eb uj\u00eb\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dhimit\u00ebr Beduli<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb realitet i hidhur q\u00eb mundon dhe zhduk popuj dhe individ\u00eb pasojat tragjike t\u00eb t\u00eb cilit p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb p\u00ebrdit\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb armiq\u00ebsia dhe hakmarrja. Prandaj jan\u00eb shum\u00eb aktuale fjal\u00ebt e nj\u00eb ati t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb q\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cKarakteristik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos luftojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm e engj\u00ebjve. Karakteristik\u00eb e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb men\u00e7ur \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb mosmarr\u00ebveshje t\u00eb vogla apo t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, por q\u00eb pas nj\u00eb kohe t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr, t\u00eb pajtohen. Kurse karakteristik\u00eb e djajve \u00ebsht\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb luftojn\u00eb vazhdimisht por edhe t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb me k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb armiq\u00ebsin\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Sa t\u00eb urta jan\u00eb k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb dhe sa tragjedi do t\u00eb qen\u00eb evituar, po t&#8217;i mbanin mend shpesh. Shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shoq\u00ebri engj\u00ebjsh, po njer\u00ebzish. Prandaj dhe nuk mungojn\u00eb mosmarr\u00ebveshjet, antipatit\u00eb, ndeshjet, armiq\u00ebsit\u00eb. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto mund t\u00eb themi se jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzore. Mjafton q\u00eb t\u00eb mos mbetet njeriu n\u00eb to, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ec\u00eb p\u00ebrpara, drejt marr\u00ebveshjes dhe pajtimit.<\/p>\n<p>Ajo q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb njer\u00ebzore po satanike, \u00ebsht\u00eb kur njeriu nuk fal, po mban armiq\u00ebsi dhe urrejtje. Madje kur ai shkon edhe m\u00eb tej, kur zien nga hakmarrja.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye edhe urt\u00ebsia e Et\u00ebrve t\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb na k\u00ebshillon q\u00eb armiq\u00ebsin\u00eb ta shkruajm\u00eb n\u00eb uj\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb shuhet menj\u00ebher\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm dashurin\u00eb ta shkruajm\u00eb n\u00eb hekur, q\u00eb t\u00eb mbetet.<\/p>\n<p>Virtyti i ndjes\u00ebs, i faljes, \u00ebsht\u00eb i madh. Prandaj dhe Zoti e rekomandon vazhdimisht. Po sjellim nd\u00ebrmend disa raste: Apostull Petri i ndikuar nga mentaliteti i koh\u00ebs s\u00eb tij dhe nga tradita judaike, e cila e kufizonte ndjes\u00ebn vet\u00ebm n\u00eb tri her\u00eb, i afrohet Krishtit dhe e pyet: \u201cSa her\u00eb do t&#8217;ia fal v\u00ebllait tim q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00ebkatoj\u00eb kund\u00ebr meje? Deri n\u00eb shtat\u00eb her\u00eb?\u201d (Mattheu 18,21). \u00cbsht\u00eb sikur t&#8217;i thoshte: Ne dim\u00eb gjer tani, se tri her\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb mjafta p\u00ebr ndjesi. Un\u00eb i b\u00ebj shtat\u00eb. A jan\u00eb t\u00eb mjafta? Dhe p\u00ebrgjigjja e Zotit: \u201cUn\u00eb nuk t\u00eb them deri n\u00eb shtat\u00eb her\u00eb, por deri n\u00eb shtat\u00ebdhjet\u00eb her\u00eb nga shtat\u00eb\u201d. Dometh\u00ebn\u00eb pa reshtur. Kurr\u00eb, o Petro, nuk duhet t\u00eb pushosh s\u00eb ndjeri t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kur b\u00ebjn\u00eb ndonj\u00eb faj ndaj teje.<\/p>\n<p>Ja edhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr rast. Kur Zoti d\u00ebrgoi disa lajm\u00ebtar\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb fshat t\u00eb Samaris\u00eb, q\u00eb t&#8217;i p\u00ebrgatitnin nj\u00eb vend p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar dhe ata i d\u00ebbuan, k\u00ebta, kur u kthyen dhe ia njoftuan k\u00ebt\u00eb Zotit, at\u00ebher\u00eb dy nga nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit e tij, Jakovi dhe Joani, t\u00eb indinjuar nga kjo p\u00ebrbuzje ndaj m\u00ebsuesit hyjnor, kthehen nga Zoti dhe i thon\u00eb: \u201cD\u00ebshiron t\u00eb themi q\u00eb t\u00eb zbres\u00eb zjarr nga qielli e t&#8217;i zhduk\u00eb, si\u00e7 b\u00ebri dhe Ilia?\u201d Dhe Iisui i urt\u00eb, kthehet nga ata, i qorton dhe u thot\u00eb: \u201cNuk dini t\u00eb \u00e7&#8217;fryme jeni ju. Nuk dini dhe nuk kuptoni akoma se \u00e7&#8217;dispozita shpirt\u00ebrore duhet t\u00eb zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb brenda jush. Ju nuk jeni njer\u00ebz t\u00eb zem\u00ebrimit dhe t\u00eb hakmarrjes. N\u00eb zemrat tuaja duhet t\u00eb mbret\u00ebroj\u00eb shpirti i simpatis\u00eb, i but\u00ebsis\u00eb, i toleranc\u00ebs, i zem\u00ebrgjer\u00ebsis\u00eb, i dashuris\u00eb q\u00eb nuk shkat\u00ebrron, po shp\u00ebton\u201d. Dhe shton: \u201cBiri i njeriut nuk erdhi q\u00eb t\u00eb humbas\u00eb shpirtra njer\u00ebzish, po t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb\u201d. (Lluka 10, 51-56).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00ebsim shpirt\u00ebror i bazuar n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e urta t\u00eb Et\u00ebrve t\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e faljes dhe rrezikun e armiq\u00ebsis\u00eb. Autori sjell shembujt e Apostullit Pet\u00ebr me &#8216;shtat\u00ebdhjet\u00eb her\u00eb nga shtat\u00eb&#8217; dhe t\u00eb Jakovit e Joanit n\u00eb fshatin samaritan, p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar se zemra e t\u00eb krishterit duhet t\u00eb mbret\u00ebrohet nga dashuria dhe toleranca.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"Nga fjal\u00ebt e urta t\u00eb Et\u00ebrve t\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb","numri":"3 (42\/1)","viti":"1996","muaji":"Mars","muaji_numer":"3","dita":"","faqet":"[4]","fjale_kyce":"[\"armiq\u00ebsi\", \"falje\", \"hakmarrje\", \"Et\u00ebrit e Shenjt\u00eb\", \"Petri\", \"Jakovi\", \"Joani\", \"Krishti\", \"dashuri\", \"toleranc\u00eb\"]","permbledhje":"M\u00ebsim shpirt\u00ebror i bazuar n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e urta t\u00eb Et\u00ebrve t\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e faljes dhe rrezikun e armiq\u00ebsis\u00eb. 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