Sot, m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se kurr\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit kan\u00eb n\u00eb dispozicion nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb gjer\u00eb k\u00ebshillash se si t\u00eb rritin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Esht\u00eb tem\u00eb e programeve t\u00eb radios dhe e artikujve t\u00eb gazetave, dhe ne vazhdimisht shikojm\u00eb n\u00eb televizion shembuj se si duhen mir\u00ebrritur ata. N\u00eb televizion ne shikojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb duke luajtur basketboll dhe duke pir\u00eb kokakola, ne shikojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb i kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha lojrat e fundit, shikojm\u00eb vajza t\u00eb reja t\u00eb veshura me mod\u00eb provokuese dhe gjithashtu, shikojm\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb duan sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr veten e tyre. \u00c7do dit\u00eb jemi t\u00eb bombarduar nga k\u00ebto shembuj se si duhet t\u00eb rritim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Por, nga perspektiva Orthodhokse, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebanshme dhe e kufizuar. Shum\u00eb shembuj rreth asaj se si duhen rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, nuk e p\u00ebrfillin zhvillimin moral dhe shpirt\u00ebror t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb rritje. Prind\u00ebrit kan\u00eb n\u00eb dispozicion pak k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si t\u00eb rritin nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet qytetar i Qiejve. Si prind\u00ebr orthodhoks\u00eb, mund t\u00eb shpresojm\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen si shenjtor\u00ebt, vet\u00ebm n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ne u japim atyre elementet baz\u00eb t\u00eb besimit ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Jo shum\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit i rritnin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre p\u00ebr t’u b\u00ebr\u00eb shenjtor\u00eb, p\u00ebr t’i sh\u00ebrbyer Per\u00ebndis\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t’u b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb denj\u00eb t\u00eb hynin n\u00eb Mbret\u00ebrin\u00eb e Tij, kur t\u00eb mbaronte jeta e tyre n\u00eb tok\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ve\u00e7 pak breza m\u00eb par\u00eb, vendet Orthodhokse rritnin shenjtor\u00ebt e tyre. Por \u00e7’ndodhi? A na ka b\u00ebr\u00eb Materializmi dhe Antikrisht\u00ebrimi i gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatemi me rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb sipas m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs s\u00eb bot\u00ebs? Nuk duhet t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb ashtu. Si prind\u00ebr orthodhoks\u00eb ne mund t\u00eb drejtohemi n\u00eb Kish\u00ebn ton\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur k\u00ebshilla t\u00eb mira e t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme, p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si duhet t’i rrisim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u b\u00ebr\u00eb si shenjtor\u00ebt. Ne ende kemi t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat beteja shekullore kund\u00ebr s\u00eb cilave luftuan dhe fituan shenjtor\u00ebt. Kjo nuk ka ndryshuar. Materializmi, shtypja sociale, egoizmi dhe d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t’iu p\u00ebrshtatur bot\u00ebs kan\u00eb ekzistuar si tundime p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe shenjtor\u00ebt, si n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn edhe tani n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen. Po kjo mund t\u00eb kap\u00ebrcehet n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet p\u00ebrpjekjes p\u00ebr t’i rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb me idealet e larta t\u00eb shenjt\u00ebris\u00eb, q\u00eb na jan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nga Krishti. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb edukohet q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb si\u00e7 e do Per\u00ebndia dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn e Kish\u00ebs q\u00eb n\u00eb vitet e hershme, ai do t\u00eb mbetet nj\u00eb i krishter\u00eb i devotsh\u00ebm, q\u00eb do t\u00eb ruaj\u00eb parimet e m\u00ebsuara gjat\u00eb rinis\u00eb dhe mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb rritur.<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmija edukohet q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn e Kish\u00ebs s\u00eb pari nga fjal\u00ebt e vazhdueshme, t\u00eb buta dhe t\u00eb dashura rreth dhembshuris\u00eb s\u00eb Atit, i Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb Qiell. Duke filluar q\u00eb nga periudha kur f\u00ebmija lind, prind\u00ebrit mund t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb dhe ritregojn\u00eb histori t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb Krishtit. Historia e lindjes s\u00eb Iisuit, vitet e rinis\u00eb si pun\u00ebtor marangoz n\u00eb Nazaret, mrekullit\u00eb e Tij, P\u00ebsimi dhe vdekja e Tij n\u00eb Kryq jan\u00eb histori t\u00eb mrekullueshme dhe interesante, t\u00eb cilat i edukojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb me besimin ton\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel t\u00eb kuptuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb mund t’i p\u00ebrdorim p\u00ebr t\u00eb shpjeguar se Iisu Krishti p\u00ebsoi gjith\u00eb vuajtjet, sepse njer\u00ebzimi ishte i keq, dhe Ai i deshi ata, dhe d\u00ebshironte q\u00eb ata t\u00eb ishin n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb arrinin Jet\u00ebn e P\u00ebrjetshme. M\u00eb von\u00eb, historit\u00eb e shenjtor\u00ebve, shembulli i tyre p\u00ebr ne, martirizmi i tyre, sakrificat e tyre, besimi i tyre i vendosur n\u00eb koh\u00ebt e ngasjeve, dashuria e tyre e \u00e7ilt\u00ebr dhe d\u00ebshira e tyre p\u00ebr Krishtin jan\u00eb shembuj t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr familjet tona q\u00eb t’i ken\u00eb si modele p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. \u00c7do kremte e Kish\u00ebs ka nj\u00eb histori t\u00eb re p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Ikonat tona t\u00eb shenjta na tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb histori t\u00eb ngjarjeve t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe heronjve t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs son\u00eb. Kur ju jeni me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj dhe shkoni t\u00eb puthni ikonat e shenjtor\u00ebve, ju mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni nj\u00eb minut\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i treguar virtytet e m\u00ebdha q\u00eb kishte ai shenjt, dhe q\u00eb ne mund t’i imitojm\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vegj\u00ebl mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafojn\u00eb Kish\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb Orthodhokse. Kur f\u00ebmija b\u00ebhet pak m\u00eb i madh ne mund t\u00eb fillojm\u00eb t\u00eb lidhim festimin e Krishtlindjes me historin\u00eb e ardhjes s\u00eb Krishtit n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar si njeri, dhe jet\u00ebn e thjesht\u00eb q\u00eb Ai kaloi, si dhe q\u00eb vet\u00ebm Ai mund t\u00eb na shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb ne n\u00eb kryq. Vez\u00ebt e kuqe t\u00eb Pashk\u00ebs mund t\u00eb lidhen me vuajtjen q\u00eb Zoti dhe Shp\u00ebtimtari yn\u00eb Iisu Krisht deri n\u00eb vdekje p\u00ebr m\u00ebkatet e njer\u00ebzimit. F\u00ebmija do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye ne nuk duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebkatojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Duke b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, ne do t\u00eb v\u00ebm\u00eb baz\u00ebn e besimit ton\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel pak m\u00eb kompleks e cila mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrvet\u00ebsohet edhe nga f\u00ebmija i vog\u00ebl para se t\u00eb filloj\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebto jan\u00eb mjetet t\u00eb cilat mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdoren nga prind\u00ebrit orthodhoks\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u m\u00ebsuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebve besimin orthodhoks. Q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb re vendosim bazat e krishtera, m\u00ebsojm\u00eb bindjen, t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn dhe virtytet e shenjtor\u00ebve. Shembulli i jet\u00ebs son\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mjeti i par\u00eb dhe thelb\u00ebsor i edukimit. Bibla e Shenjt\u00eb dhe ikonat e Kish\u00ebs son\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb mjet tjet\u00ebr edukimi. Jet\u00ebt e shenjtor\u00ebve jan\u00eb gjithashtu t\u00eb nj\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsie t\u00eb madhe. Si prind\u00ebr, ne kemi nj\u00eb detyr\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe q\u00eb t\u00eb formojm\u00eb tek k\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb shenjtor\u00ebt e m\u00ebdhenj t\u00eb brezave t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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