Disa her\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb fyejm\u00eb e prekim nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Kjo ndodh sepse djalli urren dashurin\u00eb midis nesh dhe me zgjuarsi na fut n\u00eb kurth, q\u00eb t\u00eb fyejm\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin ton\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur paqen dhe harmonin\u00eb, pajtimi \u00ebsht\u00eb absolutisht i domosdosh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Bibla na m\u00ebson se kur m\u00ebkatojm\u00eb ndaj t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit ton\u00eb, m\u00ebkatojm\u00eb, gjithashtu, ndaj Per\u00ebndis\u00eb dhe kur fyejm\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin ton\u00eb, fyejm\u00eb vet Per\u00ebndin\u00eb. Dashuria p\u00ebr t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin ton\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb g\u00ebrshetuar me dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr Per\u00ebndin\u00eb. Kur dashuria jon\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin \u00ebsht\u00eb e prishur, e till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe dashuria jon\u00eb p\u00ebr Per\u00ebndin\u00eb. Rrjedhimisht, n\u00ebse duan t\u00eb pajtohemi me Per\u00ebndin\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kemi paqe me T\u00eb, s\u00eb pari duhet t\u00eb pajtohemi me t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin ton\u00eb dhe pastaj t’i lutemi Per\u00ebndis\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00ebshir\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Derisa t\u00eb rivendoset paqja e dashuria, Per\u00ebndia s’do t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb as pendimin, as lutjet dhe asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr prej nesh. Me fjal\u00eb ose veprime qoft\u00eb fyerja, k\u00ebrko pa vones\u00eb falje p\u00ebrul\u00ebsisht. Duhet t\u00eb thyejm\u00eb idhullin e krenaris\u00eb e t\u00eb p\u00ebrkulemi me p\u00ebrul\u00ebsi p\u00ebrpara t\u00eb fyerit. Kur p\u00ebrkulim gjurin ton\u00eb duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrkulim zemr\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Kur lutemi me buz\u00ebt tona p\u00ebr falje, duhet t\u00eb pendohemi e t\u00eb ndjejm\u00eb hidh\u00ebrim n\u00eb zemrat tona.<\/p>\n
“P\u00ebrse duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj falje? – mund t\u00eb pyesim. “Ai m\u00eb ka prekur. Un\u00eb nuk i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb atij”. Sidoqoft\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb, se i fyeri duhet t\u00eb fal\u00eb fyesin. Sa e tmerrshme \u00ebsht\u00eb kur ne nuk falim fajet e t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit ton\u00eb. N\u00ebse ne falim t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin ton\u00eb, Per\u00ebndia do t\u00eb na fal\u00eb neve gjithashtu. N\u00ebse ne nuk falim, Per\u00ebndia s’do t\u00eb na fal\u00eb. At\u00ebhere, si do mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojm\u00eb ne p\u00ebrpara Per\u00ebndis\u00eb? Dhe sa vler\u00eb ka lutja jon\u00eb. Pothuajse aspak. Sepse si mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojm\u00eb p\u00ebrpara Per\u00ebndis\u00eb me zem\u00ebrim n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn ton\u00eb? Dhe ne duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb marrim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb fajin, sepse m\u00ebkati \u00ebsht\u00eb i yni.<\/p>\n
Megith\u00ebse m\u00ebkati \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb kund\u00ebr nesh, ne duhet t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb se jemi gjithashtu m\u00ebkatar\u00eb dhe duhet t\u00eb falim. I af\u00ebrmi yn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb debitori yn\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkon falje nga ne, por ne jemi debitor\u00eb te Per\u00ebndia dhe duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb faljen e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb. A u falim t\u00eb af\u00ebrm\u00ebve tan\u00eb fajet e tyre? Per\u00ebndia na fal ne gjithashtu n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e Tij. Refuzojm\u00eb t\u00eb falim? Per\u00ebndia do t\u00eb refuzoj\u00eb t\u00eb na fal\u00eb neve gjithashtu. Ashtu si\u00e7 trajtojm\u00eb ne t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin ton\u00eb, ashtu do t\u00eb na trajtoj\u00eb edhe ne Per\u00ebndia. Falja ose mosfalja e m\u00ebkateve tona varet nga ne. Pa falje nuk ka shp\u00ebtim. Kujto, se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi m\u00ebkatar\u00eb n\u00eb syt\u00eb e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb kur t\u00eb kthehet e mira me t\u00eb keqe. Dhe kush b\u00ebn m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira se sa Per\u00ebndia? Megjithat\u00eb, ne m\u00ebkatojm\u00eb vazhdimisht kundra Tij. Thuaj nga zemra, “m\u00ebkatova o Zot, m\u00ebshirom\u00eb. Un\u00eb e fal t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin tim, falm\u00eb edhe Ti gjithashtu mua, sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtorin T\u00ebnd t\u00eb padenj\u00eb, q\u00eb m\u00ebkatova kund\u00ebr Teje, Krijuesit dhe Mir\u00ebb\u00ebr\u00ebsit tim.”<\/p>\n
Nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb fyerje m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb sesa ajo q\u00eb iu b\u00eb Krishtit, Shp\u00ebtimtarit ton\u00eb, t\u00eb Cilin jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb e blasfemuan, e shan\u00eb, e p\u00ebrqesh\u00ebn, e p\u00ebshtyn\u00eb, e tall\u00ebn, e godit\u00ebn dhe e lidh\u00ebn, por n\u00eb fund e kuror\u00ebzuan me gj\u00ebmba dhe e mb\u00ebrthyen n\u00eb kryq. Duke kaluar aty, e mallkuan At\u00eb q\u00eb ishte mb\u00ebrthyer e d\u00ebnuar me vdekje – Birin e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb dhe Zotin e Lavdis\u00eb. Kush jemi ne, n\u00eb krahasim me At\u00eb, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq i madh; \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fyerja jon\u00eb e krahasuar me flijimin e Tij? Si hi\u00e7i. Krishti i duroi t\u00eb gjitha me but\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe e durim. P\u00ebr k\u00eb? P\u00ebr mua dhe p\u00ebr ty. Dhe jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb i duroi t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto, por Ai u lut p\u00ebr armiqt\u00eb e tij gjithashtu, “O At ndjeji ata” (Lluk. 23;24). Reflekto mbi t\u00eb si n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb dhe pa dyshim do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb fal\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n
Kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb lexojn\u00eb libra, s\u00eb pari m\u00ebsojn\u00eb shkronjat dhe pastaj si t\u00eb lexojn\u00eb. Si t\u00eb krishter\u00eb, s\u00eb pari ne m\u00ebsojm\u00eb t\u00eb kthejm\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn me t\u00eb mir\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00ebnjohje; pastaj t\u00eb mos kthejm\u00eb t\u00eb keqen me t\u00eb keqe dhe t\u00eb mos hakmerremi. Pas k\u00ebsaj, ne m\u00ebsojm\u00eb t\u00eb duam armiqt\u00eb tan\u00eb dhe t’u b\u00ebjm\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb atyre q\u00eb na urrejn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb keqen ta kthejm\u00eb me t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shkalla me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn t\u00eb krishter\u00ebt ngjiten drejt p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebris\u00eb, drejt bashkimit me Per\u00ebndin\u00eb!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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