Le t’i rrisim mbar\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb<\/p>\n
Prind. Fjala na sjell nd\u00ebrmend f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb, dhe disa nga \u00e7astet m\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta q\u00eb jetuam me prind\u00ebrit: mbase duke dal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb akullore, apo ndonj\u00eb qerasje t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb. Padyshim, ne mund t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb ndjenjat e ngrohta t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb tyre p\u00ebr ne dhe g\u00ebzimin q\u00eb kjo i jepte zemr\u00ebs son\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh prind, por edhe shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Esht\u00eb dhurat\u00eb nga Per\u00ebndia. Roli q\u00eb ne, si prind\u00ebr, kemi n\u00eb rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi e madhe. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr ta e i duam t\u00eb rriten njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mbar\u00eb; dhe jemi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebrpara Per\u00ebndis\u00eb dhe vet\u00eb f\u00ebmijve tan\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i rritur ata n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e krishter\u00eb orthodhokse.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb jesh prind \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto koh\u00eb dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb brez, kur synimet personale fitojn\u00eb prioritet ndaj atyre familjare. Njer\u00ebzit ndjejn\u00eb nevoj\u00ebn e garantimit t\u00eb siguris\u00eb ekonomike. Jet\u00ebt tona b\u00ebhen gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb ngarkuara. Megjithat\u00eb, si prind\u00ebr duhet t’i japim p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi rritjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmijve n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb angazhim kohe dhe energjie, sepse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb rrit\u00ebsh mbar\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Por, do t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroja q\u00eb t’ju inkurajoja n\u00eb t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb nj\u00eb th\u00ebnie t\u00eb Sh\u00ebn Theofan Eremitit ne shohim se prind\u00ebrit orthodhoks\u00eb jan\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen dhe shp\u00ebtimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre: “Rritja \u00ebsht\u00eb shkaku i gjith\u00e7kaje, t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb keqe”. Mendoni, se m\u00ebnyra sesi i rrisim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb efekt n\u00eb tipin e njeriut q\u00eb ata do t\u00eb b\u00ebhen n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e rritur! Sa detyr\u00eb t\u00eb frikshme kan\u00eb prind\u00ebrit. Ndaj q\u00eb ta marrin seriozisht dhe t’i p\u00ebrgjigjemi si\u00e7 duhet.<\/p>\n
Ndokush mund t\u00eb shtroj\u00eb pyetjen: Si arrin nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb ose nj\u00eb i rritur momentin kur d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ec\u00eb drejt Per\u00ebndis\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Krishtit dhe t\u00eb ket\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb gjall\u00eb me Krishtin? Sipas Sh\u00ebn Theofanit, n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb ka nj\u00eb moment kur ne marrim vendimin e nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm t\u00eb pasojm\u00eb Krishtin dhe t’i dedikojm\u00eb atij jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Kjo nuk mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb n\u00ebse nuk jemi n\u00eb dijeni p\u00ebr Krishtin. Dhe, si prind\u00ebr, kemi p\u00ebr detyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb njohim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb me Krishtin q\u00eb kur ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl. Sepse, si mund t\u00eb presim q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen t\u00eb krishter\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00ebse ata nuk njohin kush \u00ebsht\u00eb Jisu Krishti?<\/p>\n
Gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t’i sjellim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb liturgji \u00e7do t\u00eb diel\u00eb. F\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl u p\u00eblqen t\u00eb ndezin qirinj, t\u00eb puthin ikonat, t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb korin dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebndojn\u00eb s\u00eb bashku me ta, t\u00eb marrin er\u00ebn e temjanit dhe t\u00eb shohin prift\u00ebrinjt\u00eb me rrobat e tyre shum\u00ebngjyrshe. Ka shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar n\u00eb Kish\u00ebn Orthodhokse. Ikonat na rr\u00ebfejn\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje, Bibla lexohet n\u00eb \u00e7do Liturgji, besimtar\u00ebt luten p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr shp\u00ebtimin ton\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit e pag\u00ebzuar mund t\u00eb marrin Krishtin n\u00eb kungimin hyjnor, jeta e Krishtit dhe e shenjtor\u00ebve rijetohet p\u00ebrvit, n\u00eb kalendarin e Kish\u00ebs p\u00ebr vit, Krishti \u00ebsht\u00eb me ne n\u00eb Sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e Tij. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur Krishtin.<\/p>\n
Sigurisht, ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fundi, por ve\u00e7se nj\u00eb fillim. Duhet t’u tregojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb dashurin\u00eb ton\u00eb p\u00ebr Krishtin dhe d\u00ebshir\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb pasojm\u00eb Krishtin me shembullin e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb. Ne jemi shembulli i par\u00eb, se si duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i krishteri, q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Ne kemi nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb mrekullueshme n\u00eb duart tona… t\u00eb rrisim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb njer\u00ebz Per\u00ebndie, q\u00eb ndjekin rrug\u00ebt e Zotit ton\u00eb dhe marrin bekimet e tij n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Edhe nj\u00ebher\u00eb, s\u00ebrisht, ju inkurajoj t\u00eb angazhoni veten tuaj n\u00eb rritjen e f\u00ebmijve tuaj n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn orthodhokse. Merrini me vete n\u00eb Kish\u00eb; m\u00ebsojuni himne t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs son\u00eb; m\u00ebsojini t\u00eb ndezin nj\u00eb qiri dhe t\u00eb puthin ikonat. Le t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb Bibl\u00ebn sa her\u00eb q\u00eb keni mund\u00ebsi t’ua lexoni. Sh\u00ebn Theofani na kujton “Sa fat i mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh rritur mbar\u00eb, me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i krishter\u00eb, t\u00eb hysh n\u00eb vitet e rinis\u00eb dhe m\u00eb pas me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn frym\u00eb t\u00eb hysh n\u00eb vitet e pjekuris\u00eb”. Si prind\u00ebr kemi para nesh nj\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Le t\u00eb rrisnim mbar\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Presvitera R\u00ebne Ritzi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Artikull i Presviteres R\u00ebne Ritzi p\u00ebr p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve orthodhoks\u00eb n\u00eb rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Krishtit: t’i sjellin n\u00eb liturgji, t’u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb himne kishtare, t’i njohin me ikonat dhe Bibl\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"nentitulli":"","numri":"4 (19)","viti":"1994","muaji":"Prill","muaji_numer":"4","dita":"","faqet":"[9]","fjale_kyce":"[\"prind\u00ebr\", \"f\u00ebmij\u00eb\", \"rritje n\u00eb krisht\u00ebrim\", \"Sh\u00ebn Theofan Eremiti\", \"liturgji\", \"ikona\", \"qiri\", \"kungim hyjnor\", \"Bibla\"]","permbledhje":"Artikull i Presviteres R\u00ebne Ritzi p\u00ebr p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve orthodhoks\u00eb n\u00eb rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Krishtit: t'i sjellin n\u00eb liturgji, t'u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb himne kishtare, t'i njohin me ikonat dhe Bibl\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl.","autori":"Presvitera R\u00ebne Ritzi","kategoria":"Familje \/ Edukim","kryeredaktor":"Thoma Dhima"},"ngjallja_kategoria":[9497],"ngjallja_autori":[9498],"ngjallja_viti":[9436],"ngjallja_kryeredaktor":[9473],"class_list":["post-82874","ngjallja_article","type-ngjallja_article","status-publish","hentry","ngjallja_kategoria-familje-edukim","ngjallja_autori-presvitera-rene-ritzi","ngjallja_viti-9436","ngjallja_kryeredaktor-thoma-dhima"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n