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\u00abN\u00ebse ua falni njer\u00ebzve fajet e tyre, do t\u2019jua fal\u00eb edhe juve Ati juaj qiellor. Po n\u00ebse nuk ua falni njer\u00ebzve fajet e tyre, as Ati juaj nuk do t\u00eb fal\u00eb fajet tuaja\u00bb (v. 14-15)<\/p>\n
Gjendemi n\u00eb hyrje t\u00eb Triodit. N\u00eb prag t\u00eb Dyzet\u00ebdit\u00ebshit t\u00eb Madh e t\u00eb Shenjt\u00eb. Pas dy shkall\u00ebve t\u00eb para, t\u00eb P\u00ebrul\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Pendimit, vijm\u00eb tek shkalla e tret\u00eb, ajo e Ndjes\u00ebs. Pjesa e sotme e Ungjillit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shk\u00ebputje e vog\u00ebl e \u00abfjalimit mbi mal\u00bb t\u00eb Jisu Krishtit, menj\u00ebher\u00eb dhe si vazhdim i \u00abAti yn\u00eb q\u00eb je n\u00eb qiej…\u00bb \u00abdhe falna fajet tona, sikurse edhe ne ua falim fajtor\u00ebve tan\u00eb\u00bb.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb vjen tani q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbush\u00eb M\u00ebsuesi hyjnor.<\/p>\n
Ati, si\u00e7 e pam\u00eb t\u00eb diel\u00ebn e kaluar, ia dha gjykimin Birit. Dhe Biri, si\u00e7 e shikojm\u00eb tani, jep mas\u00ebn e gjykimit tek ne. Ajo q\u00eb na intereson, kur do t\u00eb na gjykoj\u00eb Per\u00ebndia; \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i vij\u00eb keq p\u00ebr ne dhe t\u00eb na fal\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Sepse p\u00ebrndryshe, si\u00e7 e thot\u00eb psalmi, \u00abkush mundet t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb?\u00bb -kush do t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara Tij dhe kush do t\u00eb duroj\u00eb? Por ja pra se, q\u00eb t\u00eb na fal\u00eb Per\u00ebndia, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Fal dhe do t\u00eb falesh. Duaj dhe do t\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb Per\u00ebndia.<\/p>\n
I krishteri, n\u00eb ecurin\u00eb e tij t\u00eb p\u00ebrpjet\u00eb dhe me shikimin e kthyer drejt qiellit, kur ndien se e r\u00ebndon di\u00e7ka, sipas porosis\u00eb s\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, e depoziton k\u00ebtu n\u00eb tok\u00eb. Dhe ngarkesa e tij e par\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb, midis t\u00eb tjerave, edhe m\u00ebrimbajtja, fryma e hakmarrjes. Kjo ngarkes\u00eb heq fuqit\u00eb e shpirtit, dhe k\u00ebshtu e b\u00ebn at\u00eb t\u00eb pamundur t\u00eb hip\u00eb n\u00eb shkall\u00ebn drejt qiellit, por edhe n\u00ebse arrin deri n\u00eb dyert e tij, do t\u2019i paraqitet borxhi i pashlyer i m\u00ebrimbajtjes ndaj v\u00ebllait t\u00eb tij, i cili nuk i jep t\u00eb drejt\u00eb m\u00ebrimbajt\u00ebsit dhe hakmarr\u00ebsit t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb Mbret\u00ebrin\u00eb e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, p\u00ebrderisa nuk ka shlyer borxhet e tij. Q\u00eb t\u00eb paguaj\u00eb detyrimin personal, duhet t\u00eb fshij\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht nga kujtesa, detyrimin e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve ndaj tij. T\u00eb jap\u00eb pra faljen me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb hapur, n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb Krishtit, ndaj atij q\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do lloj m\u00ebnyre ka b\u00ebr\u00eb faj ndaj tij. K\u00ebshtu, me nj\u00eb \u00e7ilt\u00ebrsi dhe past\u00ebrti morale, i leht\u00eb nga pasionet, do mundet t\u2019i drejtohet Atit Qiellor, q\u00eb t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb falje m\u00ebkatesh, duke i premtuar me sinqeritet dhe ndershm\u00ebri, se edhe ai vet\u00eb do t\u00eb harroj\u00eb \u00e7do padrejt\u00ebsi apo ofendim personal q\u00eb i b\u00ebri dikush tjet\u00ebr, si njeri me dob\u00ebsi edhe ai. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shkalla e par\u00eb dhe e q\u00ebndrueshme e shkall\u00ebs qiellore, falja q\u00eb dha Zoti nga Kryqi ndaj armiqve t\u00eb Tij. Ashtu sikurse edhe Apostulli i Tij, martiri i par\u00eb Stefan, ndaj Judenjve q\u00eb e godisnin me gur\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Por ne, meqen\u00ebse egoizmi yn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i shumt\u00eb dhe sedra jon\u00eb e madhe, mbajm\u00eb brenda nesh t\u00eb keqen q\u00eb na b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, dhe urrejm\u00eb. Po, por kryesisht n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e k\u00ebtij Dyzet\u00ebdit\u00ebshi t\u00eb Madh, do ta vizitojm\u00eb shpesh atin ton\u00eb shpirt\u00ebror dhe do t\u00eb rr\u00ebfehemi. Por n\u00ebse mbajm\u00eb m\u00ebri dhe nuk falim m\u00eb par\u00eb ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb faj kund\u00ebr nesh, i padobish\u00ebm do t\u00eb jet\u00eb rr\u00ebfimi yn\u00eb. E padobishme kreshma e Dyzet\u00ebdit\u00ebshit t\u00eb Madh, lutja, Liturgjit\u00eb e Parashenjt\u00ebruara, Pasdarkat q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndjekim, dhe \u00e7dolloj e mir\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb. Per\u00ebndia e tha qart\u00eb: Nuk do t\u2019i fal\u00eb ata q\u00eb nuk falin t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tyre.<\/p>\n
Rrjedhimisht ekziston rreziku q\u00eb, edhe gjat\u00eb periudh\u00ebs s\u00eb Dyzet\u00ebdit\u00ebshit t\u00eb Madh, por edhe \u00e7doher\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, t\u00eb humbasim mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb detoksifikuar shpirtin ton\u00eb nga helmet dhe ta \u00e7lirojm\u00eb nga pesha e m\u00ebkatit dhe ta ndjejm\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri shpirtin ton\u00eb t\u00eb rinovuar, t\u00eb leht\u00eb, t\u00eb lumtur, n\u00ebse edhe ne t\u00eb par\u00ebt nuk p\u00ebrmbushim k\u00ebt\u00eb kusht t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb por edhe shp\u00ebtues.<\/p>\n
Sigurisht, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i marr\u00eb ai njeri, i cili nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb interesin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. P\u00ebr shembull, dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk blen di\u00e7ka e cila do t\u2019i ofrohet ligj\u00ebrisht dhe me nj\u00eb \u00e7mim shum\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt, pothuajse falas, do ta konsideronim se \u00ebsht\u00eb me aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb kufizuara mendore apo i \u00e7ekuilibruar mend\u00ebrisht.<\/p>\n
Por m\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebt nga ne, kryejm\u00eb zakonisht nj\u00eb gabim, i cili na tregon shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb edhe nga ata q\u00eb do kishin rastin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Sepse kur dikush nuk i shpenzon parat\u00eb e tij t\u00eb pakta, me di\u00e7ka t\u00eb \u00e7mueshme q\u00eb i ofrohet, i mbeten vet\u00ebm ato pak para q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb humbasim nj\u00eb thesar t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb, faljen e m\u00ebkateve tona, q\u00eb t\u00eb ruajm\u00eb brenda shpirtit ton\u00eb m\u00ebrimbajtjen, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm ndjenj\u00eb pa vler\u00eb por edhe e d\u00ebmshme. N\u00eb vend, pra, q\u00eb duke l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebrimbajtjen, t\u00eb \u00e7lirohemi nga helmet dhe pesha e m\u00ebkateve tona, k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulim t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb brenda shpirtit ton\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb helm m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Dhe gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e frikshme \u00ebsht\u00eb se b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb helm, i cili ka cil\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb shum\u00ebfishoj\u00eb ndikimin e helmeve t\u00eb tjera. Sepse, padyshim, \u00e7do m\u00ebkat ushtron brenda shpirtit ton\u00eb ndikimin e tij. Por kur nj\u00eb m\u00ebkat kombinohet me m\u00ebrimbajtjen, at\u00ebher\u00eb ndikimi i saj b\u00ebhet shum\u00eb m\u00eb i fort\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Duke k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulur pra t\u00eb mbajm\u00eb n\u00eb shpirtin ton\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb helm t\u00eb tmerrsh\u00ebm, humbasim rastin q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojm\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb thesari. Na ofrohet falas nga Per\u00ebndia, falja, \u00e7lirimi jon\u00eb nga ndjenja e fajit, nga pesha d\u00ebshp\u00ebruese e m\u00ebkatit dhe ne e refuzojm\u00eb. E p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisim, le t\u00eb mos mashtrohemi. Sado q\u00eb T\u2019i lutemi Per\u00ebndis\u00eb, \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb, n\u00ebse edhe nuk i falim t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt p\u00ebr ato q\u00eb kryen kund\u00ebr nesh, nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb t\u00eb falemi as ne.<\/p>\n
Shqet\u00ebsimi nga faji do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb trondis\u00eb bot\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb brendshme. Do t\u00eb ndjejm\u00eb se m\u00ebkatet tona vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb lodhin shpirtin ton\u00eb me pesh\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb pap\u00ebrballueshme. Paqe shpirt\u00ebrore, qet\u00ebsi t\u00eb brendshme, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb kemi. Madje edhe n\u00ebse supozohet se u afruam n\u00eb misterin e Rr\u00ebfimit, madje edhe n\u00ebse u ushtruam n\u00eb kreshm\u00eb t\u00eb rrept\u00eb dhe n\u00eb sakrifica t\u00eb shumta e t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, p\u00ebrderisa p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe q\u00eb na b\u00ebn\u00eb, vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb mbajm\u00eb n\u00eb shpirtin ton\u00eb lig\u00ebsi, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb falemi nga Per\u00ebndia.<\/p>\n
Ai e njeh bot\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb brendshme m\u00eb mir\u00eb edhe nga vet\u00eb ne. Nuk mundemi Ta mashtrojm\u00eb, sepse \u00abPer\u00ebndia nuk p\u00ebrbuzet\u00bb (Gal. 6:7), nuk g\u00ebnjehet, nuk vihet dot n\u00eb loj\u00eb, nuk tallet, nuk p\u00ebrqeshet. Duhet q\u00eb ne s\u00eb pari, jo vet\u00ebm nga goja jon\u00eb, por nga zemra jon\u00eb, nga thell\u00ebsit\u00eb e zemr\u00ebs son\u00eb, me gjith\u00eb shpirtin ton\u00eb, pa asnj\u00eb rezerv\u00eb, t\u00eb falim gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb na d\u00ebmtuan. Vet\u00ebm at\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb shpirti yn\u00eb gati t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb faljen e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shijoj\u00eb paqen q\u00eb Ai jep me faljen e Tij.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, fatkeq\u00ebsisht, madje edhe ata q\u00eb konsiderohen si \u201ct\u00eb krishter\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d, nuk jan\u00eb kujdesur mjaftuesh\u00ebm dhe aq sa duhet. Megjith\u00ebse e p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisim kaq her\u00eb, \u00abdhe falna fajet tona, sikurse edhe ne ua falim fajtor\u00ebve tan\u00eb\u00bb, prap\u00ebseprap\u00eb nuk kalon nga mendja jon\u00eb se Zoti, pa k\u00ebt\u00eb kusht, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb na jap\u00eb faljen e m\u00ebkateve tona.<\/p>\n
Sh\u00ebn Joani i Kronshtandit na rikujton n\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, nd\u00ebrhyrjen e apostull Pjetrit ndaj Krishtit: \u00abZot, sa her\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb faj ndaj meje im v\u00eblla, dhe t\u2019ia fal atij? Deri n\u00eb shtat\u00eb her\u00eb? -numri shtat\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb num\u00ebr i hirsh\u00ebm q\u00eb tregon plot\u00ebsin\u00eb- Jisui i thot\u00eb atij: Nuk t\u00eb them deri n\u00eb shtat\u00eb her\u00eb, po deri n\u00eb shtat\u00ebdhjet\u00eb her\u00eb shtat\u00eb\u00bb (Mat. 18:21) q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb panum\u00ebrta. Zoti, si zem\u00ebrnjoh\u00ebs -vazhdon sh\u00ebn Joani- e di se njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb subjekt i r\u00ebnieve t\u00eb shpeshta por edhe se pendohen dhe ngrihen; prandaj edhe na porosit t\u00eb falim shpesh fajet e tyre.<\/p>\n
Por edhe ai vet\u00eb s\u00eb pari p\u00ebrmbush fjal\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb. Sa her\u00eb buron nga zemra jote fjala \u00abpendohem\u00bb Ai menj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb fal.<\/p>\n
V\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi t\u00eb dashur m\u00eb Krishtin!<\/p>\n
Prandaj edhe ne le t\u00eb p\u00ebrparojm\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebt dhe le t\u00eb japim faljen ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve; dhe duke u afruar me pendim p\u00ebrpara Mjekut t\u00eb shpirtrave, le t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb edhe faljen e m\u00ebkateve tona. At\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb arrijm\u00eb, sigurisht, t\u00eb shijojm\u00eb g\u00ebzimin e dyfisht\u00eb, paqen e shpirtit ton\u00eb, dhe atje, n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e ardhshme, ta gjejm\u00eb list\u00ebn e gabimeve tona krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb bardh\u00eb dhe t\u00eb past\u00ebr.<\/p>\n
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E Diela e t\u00eb Lidhurit T\u00eb Djathit, nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje interesante, nga Mitropoliti i Beratit, Vlor\u00ebs & Kanin\u00ebs, H. Ignati, 26.02.2023 (Tekst) \u00abN\u00ebse ua falni njer\u00ebzve fajet e tyre, do t\u2019jua fal\u00eb edhe juve Ati juaj qiellor. Po n\u00ebse nuk ua falni njer\u00ebzve fajet e tyre, as Ati juaj nuk do t\u00eb fal\u00eb fajet tuaja\u00bb (v. 14-15) Gjendemi n\u00eb hyrje t\u00eb Triodit. N\u00eb prag t\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":63568,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","inline_featured_image":false,"fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/52714879024_19fc78d28e_b.jpg","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2777],"tags":[2783,2779],"class_list":["post-63564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-predikimet-e-se-dieles-festive","tag-mitropolia-e-beratit","tag-predikimet-e-se-dieles-festive"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n