{"id":1844,"date":"2012-11-03T08:53:51","date_gmt":"2012-11-03T07:53:51","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2022-02-19T17:00:24","modified_gmt":"2022-02-19T16:00:24","slug":"martesa-d21","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/orthodoxalbania.org\/2020\/2012\/11\/03\/martesa-d21\/","title":{"rendered":"Martesa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Martesa<\/strong><\/h4>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs njer\u00ebzore n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tok\u00eb si \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar nga Per\u00ebndia.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye njeriu do t\u00eb braktis\u00eb baban\u00eb dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij dhe do t\u00eb bashkohet me gruan e tij, dhe do t\u00eb jen\u00eb nj\u00eb mish i vet\u00ebm <\/strong>(Zanafilla 2:24, kr. Matheu 19:5-6).<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Per\u00ebndia e krijoi njeriun mashkull dhe fem\u00ebr, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb burri dhe gruaja do ta jetojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre s\u00eb bashku n\u00eb martes\u00eb si nj\u00eb mish i vet\u00ebm. Ky bashkim nuk duhet t\u00eb prishet p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb arsye tok\u00ebsore.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Prandaj at\u00eb q\u00eb Per\u00ebndia ka bashkuar, njeriu t\u00eb mos e ndaj\u00eb.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ata i than\u00eb Jisuit: \u201cAt\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebrse Moisiu urdh\u00ebroi t\u00eb jepet let\u00ebrndarja dhe t\u00eb l\u00ebshohet?\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ai u tha atyre: \u201cMoisiu ju lejoi t\u2019i ndani grat\u00eb tuaja p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb ngurt\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb zemrave tuaja, por n\u00eb fillim nuk ka qen\u00eb k\u00ebshtu. Por un\u00eb ju them se kushdo q\u00eb e l\u00ebshon gruan e vet, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 rastit t\u00eb kurv\u00ebris\u00eb, dhe martohet me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, shkel kuror\u00ebn; edhe ai q\u00eb martohet me gruan e ndar\u00eb, shkel kuror\u00ebn\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Dishepujt e vet i than\u00eb: \u201cN\u00eb qoft\u00eb se kushtet e burrit ndaj gruas jan\u00eb t\u00eb tilla, m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos martohet\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Por ai u tha atyre: \u201cJo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb i kuptojn\u00eb k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb, por atyre q\u00eb iu \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb. Sepse ka eunuk\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb lindur t\u00eb till\u00eb nga barku i n\u00ebn\u00ebs; ka eunuk\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb eunuk\u00eb nga njer\u00ebzit, dhe ka eunuk\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb vet eunuk\u00eb p\u00ebr Mbret\u00ebrin\u00eb e qiejve. Ai q\u00eb mund ta kuptoj\u00eb, le ta kuptoj\u00eb\u201d<\/strong>(Matheu 19:6 \u2013 12).<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Martesa njer\u00ebzore ekziston nga vullneti i Per\u00ebndis\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00eb si shprehje e krijuar e dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb p\u00ebr njeriun dhe si pjes\u00ebmarrje e njeriut n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb krijuese t\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb. Bashkimi i burrit me gruan n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsin\u00eb e martes\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur n\u00eb Bib\u00ebl si sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb besnike t\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb p\u00ebr Izraelin dhe dashuris\u00eb flijimore t\u00eb Krishtit p\u00ebr Kish\u00ebn (kr. Isaia 54, Jeremia 3, Ezekieli 16, Osea).<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ju, grat\u00eb, n\u00ebnshtrohuni burrave tuaj porsi Zotit, sepse burri \u00ebsht\u00eb kreu i gruas, sikurse edhe Krishti \u00ebsht\u00eb kreu i kish\u00ebs, dhe ai vet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb Shp\u00ebtimtari i trupit. Ashtu si kisha i \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebnshtruar Krishtit, k\u00ebshtu grat\u00eb duhet t\u2019i n\u00ebnshtrohen burrave t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Ju, burra, t\u2019i doni grat\u00eb tuaja, sikurse edhe Krishti ka dashur kish\u00ebn dhe e ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb veten e vet p\u00ebr t\u00eb, q\u00eb ta shenjt\u00ebroj\u00eb, pasi e pastroi me larjen e ujit me an\u00eb t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs, q\u00eb ta nxjerr\u00eb at\u00eb p\u00ebrpara vetes t\u00eb lavdishme, pa njolla a rrudha a ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, por q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e shenjt\u00eb dhe e paqortueshme. K\u00ebshtu burrat duhet t\u2019i duan grat\u00eb e veta porsi trupat e tyre; kush do gruan e vet do vetveten. Sepse askush nuk urreu mishin e vet, por e ushqen dhe kujdeset me but\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb, sikurse edhe Zoti b\u00ebn me kish\u00ebn, sepse ne jemi gjymtyr\u00eb t\u00eb trupit t\u00eb tij, t\u00eb mishit t\u00eb tij dhe t\u00eb kockave t\u00eb tij. Prandaj njeriu do t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb baban\u00eb e vet dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn e vet dhe do t\u00eb bashkohet me gruan e vet, dhe t\u00eb dy do t\u00eb b\u00ebhen nj\u00eb mish i vet\u00ebm. Ky mister \u00ebsht\u00eb i madh; tani un\u00eb e them n\u00eb lidhjen me Krishtin dhe me kish\u00ebn. Por secili nga ju k\u00ebshtu ta doj\u00eb gruan e vet sikurse e do veten e vet; dhe po k\u00ebshtu gruaja ta respektoj\u00eb burrin <\/strong>(Efesian\u00ebt 5:22-33).<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 K\u00ebto fjal\u00eb t\u00eb Sh\u00ebn Pavlit, t\u00eb lexuara n\u00eb kremtimin misteror t\u00eb martes\u00ebs n\u00eb Kish\u00eb, e p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb programin p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn shpirt\u00ebrore n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsin\u00eb e martes\u00ebs. Burri duhet ta doj\u00eb gruan deri n\u00eb vdekje, ashtu si Krishti e do Kish\u00ebn. Dhe gruaja duhet t\u2019i jepet krejt\u00ebsisht burrit t\u00eb saj n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka, ashtu si Kisha i jepet Krishtit. Bashkimi i dashuris\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i p\u00ebrsosur, i plot\u00eb, i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsisht, Brenda k\u00ebtij bashkimi, akti seksual i dashuris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vula mistike e bashkimit t\u00ebr\u00ebsor n\u00eb dashuri; akti p\u00ebrmes s\u00eb cilit t\u00eb dy jan\u00eb bashkuar n\u00eb mendje, zem\u00ebr, shpirt dhe trup n\u00eb Zotin.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sipas m\u00ebsimit shpirt\u00ebror t\u00eb Kish\u00ebs Orthodhokse, martesa dhe k\u00ebshtu edhe akti seksual i dashuris\u00eb, b\u00ebhet e p\u00ebrsosur vet\u00ebm n\u00eb Krishtin dhe Kish\u00ebn. Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb \u201cmartuar n\u00eb kish\u00eb\u201d kan\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb ideale. Misteri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mekanik ose magjik. Realiteti dhe dhuratat e tij mund t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtohen dhe ndyhen, mund t\u00eb merren n\u00eb d\u00ebnim dhe gjykim, ashtu si Kungata e shenjt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb gjitha misteret e tjera t\u00eb besimit. Por do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se, kur nj\u00eb \u00e7ift martohet n\u00eb Kish\u00ebn e Krishtit, mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr p\u00ebrsosjen e martes\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht nga Per\u00ebndia.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua e duan nj\u00ebri-tjetrin me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ata d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm q\u00eb dashuria e tyre t\u00eb jet\u00eb e p\u00ebrsosur. Ata duan q\u00eb lidhja e tyre t\u00eb mbushet me \u00e7do virtyt dhe me \u00e7do fryt t\u00eb Shpirtit. Ata e duan at\u00eb t\u00eb shprehet dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushet akoma m\u00eb p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebrisht. Ata e duan at\u00eb t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. Ata q\u00eb nuk e d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb e tyre, nuk duan realisht.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua kan\u00eb nj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb till\u00eb, ata mund ta gjejn\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushjen e saj vet\u00ebm n\u00eb Krishtin. Ai e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb mundur; asnj\u00eb dhe asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr nuk mund ta b\u00ebj\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb dashurojn\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, shp\u00ebtimtari dhe p\u00ebrmbush\u00ebsi i dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb Krishti. Ai jep \u00e7do virtyt dhe \u00e7do fryt t\u00eb Shpirtit. Ai i lejon ata t\u00eb rriten p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebrisht. Ai i lejon ata t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb dashurojn\u00eb p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsisht n\u00eb Mbret\u00ebrin\u00eb e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb. Nj\u00eb martes\u00eb n\u00eb Krishtin nuk mbaron n\u00eb m\u00ebkat; ajo nuk ndahet n\u00eb vdekje. Ajo p\u00ebrmbushet dhe p\u00ebrsoset n\u00eb Mbret\u00ebrin\u00eb e qiellit. \u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye dhe vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, q\u00eb ata q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrsosjen n\u00eb martes\u00eb, vijn\u00eb n\u00eb Kish\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar n\u00eb Krishtin.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nj\u00eb martes\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e krishter\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo ku banon dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. N\u00eb bashk\u00ebsin\u00eb e martes\u00ebs dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb shprehet n\u00eb bashkimin e plot\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7iftit n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata jan\u00eb, kan\u00eb dhe b\u00ebjn\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb dashuria e nj\u00ebrit q\u00eb jeton plot\u00ebsisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e tjetrit, dashuria e bashkimit erotik n\u00eb t\u00eb qenit nj\u00eb t\u00eb mendjes, zemr\u00ebs dhe mishit; dashuria e miq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur. (shih f. . . .)<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Brenda nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebsie t\u00eb till\u00eb dashurie, akti seksual \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehja e t\u00eb gjith\u00eb asaj. U krijua nga Per\u00ebndia p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebllim. \u00cbsht\u00eb akti intim q\u00eb e gjen g\u00ebzimin e tij t\u00eb plot\u00eb, kur kryhet nga ata q\u00eb i dedikohen dhe i p\u00ebrkushtohen plot\u00ebsisht nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat, n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha m\u00ebnyrat dhe p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye t\u00eb shenjt\u00ebruar dhe hyjnore q\u00eb akti seksual nuk mund t\u00eb kryhet rast\u00ebsisht dhe kurv\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore ose trupore t\u00eb dikujt. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb akti i dashuris\u00eb vet\u00eb-flijimore n\u00eb besnik\u00ebrin\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetshme. Vet\u00ebm kur b\u00ebhet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ai i jep p\u00ebrmbushje hyjnore dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb pafund t\u00eb dashuruarve q\u00eb e kryejn\u00eb at\u00eb.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia seksuale n\u00eb martes\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, kurr\u00eb, thjesht nj\u00eb problem trupor apo biologjik. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb, pothuaj, pa asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtim, rezulatat i ndonj\u00eb defekti t\u00eb mendjes, zemr\u00ebs dhe shpirtit. M\u00eb n\u00eb themel, \u00ebsht\u00eb defekti i vet\u00eb dashuris\u00eb. Sepse, kur nj\u00ebri ka parasysh vet\u00ebm t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e tjetrit, duke d\u00ebshiruar bashkimin e plot\u00eb shpirt\u00ebror dhe trupor n\u00eb miq\u00ebsi t\u00eb p\u00ebrkryer, akti seksual \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb m\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqsh\u00ebm. Kur mungon kjo dhe di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb qend\u00ebr, k\u00ebnaqja e disa pasioneve t\u00eb pavlefshme t\u00eb trupit apo mendjes, at\u00ebher\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka ka humbur dhe perversioni i dashuris\u00eb sjell tek bashkimi hidh\u00ebrim dhe vdekje.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Normalisht, akti seksual n\u00eb martes\u00eb sjell fryt n\u00eb lindjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Ceremonia e martes\u00ebs n\u00eb Kish\u00eb lutet p\u00ebr \u201cdlir\u00ebsi, nj\u00eb shtrat t\u00eb panjollosur, lindjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe p\u00ebr \u00e7do bekim tok\u00ebsor q\u00eb ata t\u2019u japin edhe atyre q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb.\u201d Megjithat\u00eb, akti seksual i dashuris\u00eb, nuk kufizohet vet\u00ebm n\u00eb lindjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Ai ekziston edhe p\u00ebr bashkimin n\u00eb dashuri dhe p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrtimin dhe g\u00ebzimin e nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb t\u00eb atyre q\u00eb jan\u00eb martuar. N\u00ebse nuk do t\u00eb ishte k\u00ebshtu, Apostull Pavli nuk do t\u00eb jepte k\u00ebshillat e m\u00ebposhtme:<\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 . . . le t\u00eb ket\u00eb secili gruan e vet dhe secila grua burrin e vet. Burri le t\u00eb kryej\u00eb detyr\u00ebn martesore ndaj gruas, po ashtu edhe gruaja ndaj burrit. Gruaja nuk ka pushtet mbi trupin e vet, por burri; gjithashtu burri nuk ka pushtet mbi trupin e vet, por gruaja. Mos ia privoni nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, ve\u00e7 n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se jeni marr\u00eb vesh, p\u00ebr nj\u00ebfar\u00eb kohe, q\u00eb t\u2019i kushtoheni agj\u00ebrimit dhe lutjes, dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri ejani bashk\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ju tundoj\u00eb Satani p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebkontrollit tuaj <\/strong>(1 Korinthian\u00ebt 7:2-5).<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Apostulli nuk thot\u00eb se \u00e7ifti i martuar duhet t\u00eb ndahet dhe t\u00eb bashkohet vet\u00ebm me synimin e lindjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije. Por ai thot\u00eb se ata duhet t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb s\u00eb bashku, duke u ndar\u00eb \u201cve\u00e7 n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se jeni marr\u00eb vesh, p\u00ebr nj\u00ebfar\u00eb kohe\u201d dhe kjo p\u00ebr q\u00ebllimin e p\u00ebrkushtimit \u201cn\u00eb lutje\u201d. Fjal\u00ebt \u201cve\u00e7 n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se jeni marr\u00eb vesh\u201d jan\u00eb qendrore n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb, sepse secili duhet t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht sikur i p\u00ebrket tjetrit.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Seksualiteti n\u00eb martes\u00ebn e past\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb i past\u00ebr. Sepse, ashtu si apostulli thot\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr kontekst:<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e past\u00ebr p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb past\u00ebr, por asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e past\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndoturit dhe p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb nuk besojn\u00eb; madje edhe mendja, edhe nd\u00ebrgjegja e tyre jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndotura. Ata pohojn\u00eb se njohin Per\u00ebndin\u00eb, po me vepra e mohojn\u00eb, sepse jan\u00eb t\u00eb neveritsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb pabindur dhe t\u00eb pazot\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00ebdo vepre t\u00eb mir\u00eb <\/strong>(Titi 1:15-16).<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ka nga ata martesat e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve jan\u00eb ta papastra, sepse ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb korruptuar dhe jo besimtar\u00eb, t\u00eb pazot\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00ebdo vepre t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Edhe ndon\u00ebse ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb martuar dhe seksualiteti \u00ebsht\u00eb, si thon\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt tona, \u201ci ligjsh\u00ebm\u201d, megjithat\u00eb, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i paper\u00ebndish\u00ebm dhe i papast\u00ebr. Fakti, q\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201ci ligjsh\u00ebm\u201d, ose madje i martuar \u201csakramentalisht\u201d, nuk e b\u00ebn jet\u00ebn e tyre martesore t\u00eb past\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb \u00e7liruar nga pasioni i m\u00ebkatsh\u00ebm, perversioni dhe epshi. Vet\u00ebm ata q\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e jetojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn shpirt\u00ebrore n\u00eb dashuri dhe p\u00ebrkushtim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb kan\u00eb jet\u00eb seksuale q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb shenjta, t\u00eb pastra, me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi dhe p\u00ebrmbushje t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb p\u00eblqyeshme nga Per\u00ebndia. Kjo garantohet kur jeta shpirt\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb Krishtin dhe Kish\u00ebn. Por, ashtu si ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Sh\u00ebn Joan Gojarti, edhe martesat pagane jan\u00eb t\u00eb shenjta dhe t\u00eb pastra kur dashuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pranishme dhe \u00e7iftet i jan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsisht, me nj\u00eb besnik\u00ebri t\u00eb pafundme dhe me p\u00ebrkushtim t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb. Sepse, atje ku \u00ebsht\u00eb e pranishme nj\u00eb dashuri e till\u00eb, atje \u00ebsht\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm Per\u00ebndia.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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